I personally like people to know that I have visited them, even if I don't always leave a message. Sometimes, a look can be worth a thousand words, no?[/quote]
No, you are right here. I feel the same way. There will always be a part of me that loves my Late Husband. This is VERY NORMAL and a different type of Love than what the Op is talking about.
You are ok.
The OP is talking about being in love with more than one LIVING person at the same time.
RE: Hugs........lots of hugs from England.
Welcome to CS!!!