Well, that is better than getting an email of a guy that looks almost identical to your Late Husband asking you to start a corespondence with him, causing your heart to stutter. Talk about a shock.
To find out that the pic is actually one of Shahid Kapoor, a Famous Bolly Wood Actor.
I confronted the gentleman for dishonesty. He emailed me a pic of his own. He was not bad looking, either so I don't understand why he felt he needed to pass on of Shahid Kapoor's pic off as his own. But the Damage was Done. I doubt I would be able to give him any chance.
To all of You: Yes, for real, add a Moustache and you have my John. Either way, Shahid Kapoor could pass for my Late Husband's Twin. He usually had a Moustache, but did occasionally shave it all off.
Thank-you, for your kind response and well wishes. This healing, for me, was very long overdue. I am glad it happened and hope another can benefit from my experience.
No problem - I'm actually only 35 years old, and not the grumpy old 'one foot in the grave' 53 I pretend to be!
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Erm, I think I mixed my responses. ] This was actually to coolieno1. I apologise for that.
I am honored to have you as my Honourary Big Brother, though! I thank-you for the offer.
As for your last question, I don't see why not, BUT in actuality I hope not, b/c that would open a whole nother can of worms.. . .However in jest, I see nothing wrong with it.
Robkeeps wrote me the most wonderful email and Apology. He is very distraught with the death of his Father and the things he posted here. I already had figured that was a large part of the problem.
I hope you will all cut him some slack and understanding for his comments spoken out of context with his usual personality.
We all have a day where we are out of sorts and say things puting our foot in our mouth, like I have before, here as many of you know.
Yes, it should be what is the best for this World. We are a Global Society afterall, now.
We had best learn to deal with this b/c if we ever DO get Space Exploration off the ground and we find other intelligent life out there.
Then we will have to change form what is best for our Own Planet to what is best for all Planets/Life. So we had best learn in our own Cradle first, JMHO.
Thank-you, Dru. You understanding and support means much to me. I too have come to know you very well and likewise, you are like a sister to me.
Your Wisdome is something I admire and hope to one day have a deeper measure of for myself.
My Mother always said Dad was near her whenever she needed Him no matter how long he had been gone. I found out yesterday that it is true for me as well.
So even after I relocate to NY. There will be times in my life, in the future where I will need Him and he will be there, I now know that, I got shown it yesterday.
Yes, Closure is what I was not able to get b/c I had too many other things that I had to focus on for survival. It is that I know I now need before I can fully offer anything to a New Mate. I hope by the time I have met my New Mate, I will have this closure, so He can have the Fullest of my Love as John did.
Not the same that can never be. But the Fullest in a New, Whole, Healthy way.
Oh, Dru thank you for your own insightful Expieriences. It is a different schedule for all of us. It has taken me 23 years to be able reach this point you are at, in a large part b/c with my medical issues, I did not feel I had anything to offer a guy. Now, I am feeling that I do have something to offer and I want to Live.
I believe John understands that. It does not mean I love him any less. He was not only the Love of my Life, but also my First Love, First in everything, I met him when I was 20. Engaged at 21 then Married @ 22.
Thank-you for your insight. I wish you the Continued Healing, Support and Love on your Journy
Polar, I will miss you. Your posts have always been well thought out and I gained much from you.
I wish you and He the Best life has to offer and my Congratulations and well wishes for your life together that is the most important thing. I am happy for you. Please feel free to private email me my friend.
RE: Life has changed for sure
I have had a closed head injury since I was a 5th grader, changing my vision. I too, understand some of it.Doc hang in there, we are rooting for you!