Yes, Why? Did you do something and get burned? Not all of us have short fuses on our tempers. Some of us are easygoing until getting steped on or backed into a corner one time too many.
Hi, I was defending all women when I commented on each of your comments. I was never schooled to hate anyone. You did not read what I said when I used Schooling. I said helped him to get his degree while our schooling was put on hold and Stood by him while he was deathly ill, almost died and when he got his health back he hit the road with a younger girl. There are many girls whom have been in this situation.
I used the schooling/health to say that is why in SOME areas of life, I tell myself I am worth it. There is a difference between having a complete I'm worth it bad attitude and an I'm worth it as a reminder to not get hurt again.
Big difference.
Really am not trying to take anything personal just show you a different perspective of the things you said. I'm sorry if I offended you.
Pay her a compliment on something about her you like. That always helped me and I AM shy too. Sometimes you might find out she really wants to talk to you but is just as shy as you.. Remember COMPLIMENT not comments on her anataomy. I remember a Senior did that when I was a Freshman. He shocked & embarrassed me so bad that I ran from the room everytime he came in. Sad thing was I too had a crush on him and he lost out by being uncoth.
I'm sorry, but to an extent I have to disagree. Women have been expected to BE perfect in many ways by guys, esp those raised by the Dad works Mom makes a perfect home era. Even to the extent of having to take all the critical picking apart of most, if not everything, she has done as not being good enough, not perfect enough. Then when she does manage to get something right, he does not accknowlege what she has done b/c it is his "right" to expect her to be and do everything to perfect standards.
Those raised in in that era saw the women get cut down again and again. Dry her tears and try again b/c life revolved around the bread winner and his expectations. Many girls I know, deided they deserved better than that, rightfully so.
RE: redheads.
Oh, Thanks a lot! You are really pushing it too.: