CjTenorSax Forum Posts

Sep 7, 2008

RE: What do you think about bachelor/ess parties?.................

Well put. Why put yourself in the position to begin with, only to ask yourself that question later?

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: What do you think about bachelor/ess parties?.................

BTW, Yes, I am serious.

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: What do you think about bachelor/ess parties?.................

No not jealous. Just question why one would need to look or one last fling right before the wedding. To me that signals a lack of respect for the upcoming marriage. It does colour it in a bad light as far as keeping with Spiritual/Religious views and beliefs.

Marriage is supposed to be a Sacred state that two people have chosen to enter with each other. I would not be stepping out either visually or physically on my partner during the whole courtship. Why would I then do that before taking vows to forsake all others?

It does not matter that you trust the other person or not, it just is an avenue for trouble by opening ones self up for problems when the other found out and I do believe the other does find out.

If you re-read my first post in this thread, you will see what I mean.

I trusted my late husband. I was not worried about him. Did my Sorority Sisters and I have the same trust in return? I think not. Re-read what happened.

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: What is the person above you doing in bed II ?

You go, I'll pass.

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: What is the person above you doing in bed II ?

OOPS! I walked into the wrong room on the way back from the little girls room, Um, Sorry guys! Um, carry on. (quietly closing door and walking away blushing furiously)

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: How do i handle this situation?

True, very true. Some girls could freak out so bad, You might find yourself explaining it to a Judge... not worth the risk IMHO.
Don't do it. You could Favorite her instead or friend request.

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: I noticed something

Yep, they think they do. Them and their half naked towel shots.

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: Happy Birthday Markiza!!!

Happy Birthday. May you live long and every Birthday a Blessing Be.

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: Dancing Amongst Tears

Very nice and moving. Thank-you

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: What do you think about bachelor/ess parties?.................

inverphil wrote:
Total spectacle we have them here in Temple bar all the time girls where little or nothing guys get plastered .

Oh, G-d please spare me. . . This is acceptable? I think I would rather commit suicide in the fashion of WWII Japanese Soldiers first.

Yep, that's a good way to look at it. BTW, Wonder how those that do this explain it to the Children when, curious little fingers pull it out of the dark hiding corner and watch it? JMHO but they more than likely never have their Children's respect again. Also, the parents then lost all credibility in teaching them this is not acceptable behaviour. Again, JMHO.

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: ...thoughts...

Hi Xtabentun

I like it, very much nice way to wind down the day. Thanks!

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: What is the person above you doing in bed II ?

No, not firemen Ballerinas !

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: What do you think about bachelor/ess parties?.................

Yes Absolutely. That is the reason my Sorority Sisters and I who were getting married did not want anything other than a nice respectable bridal shower. The other sisters were right we three WERE the Stick-in-the-mud of the house.

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: A quote that inspires you?

You see things that are and ask Why.

I see things that are not yet and ask why not.

Can't remember who wrote it - I think, Kahil Gilbran. Had it in a small poster when I was a kid. It really, really spoke to me and still does.

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: What do you think about bachelor/ess parties?.................

Never heard of one like this. Would definitely not have the result of mine. Still would not ever want another one.

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: learn a new language?

Bye Rahul!!

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: learn a new language?

Absolutely well said. I feel the same way

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: do you think pot (weed) is good or bad

They have also shown that this stuff causes people to become addicted to stronger stuff over time!

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: do you think pot (weed) is good or bad

Bad. The pesticides used today, when burned, become radioactive Isotopic daughters of Uranium. Which caused Radiation in the body more than equal to 8 chest x-rays/ year.

This was listed in Radiation Journals and is covered in Al-Anon, Family Education. Plus the Sheriff Dept. where I live has held community meetings on this. . . infact, make that MEGA BAD!!!

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: do you think pot (weed) is good or bad

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Sep 7, 2008

RE: love and turning 50

Love the talent here.

Happy Birthday!!! My big 5o is soon in matter of months

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Sep 5, 2008

RE: With or without goatee???

I am with you, here no soul patch. Not usually a fan of gotees but- I also believe each person has to make their own comfortable decisions for their bodies. (Now, let's see you with just a moustache

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Sep 5, 2008

RE: A clue?

You are welcome. I really hope it helps. Thankyou for your kind words about me you made my day. I also see you here and there. You have a good head on your shoulders AND a good innervoice, listen to them. Blessings to you.
Cyndie

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Sep 5, 2008

RE: If i fell in love with you

No, you are not alone in this. This is how it is for me, how I view love/life with someone, as well.

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Sep 5, 2008

RE: What is the best way to break up with someone?

I, also, have to agree with Ship on this one.

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Sep 5, 2008

RE: What is the best way to break up with someone?

Exactly, what I would say. Be calm use I statements not you statements. Be polite, respectful but don't let any guilt trips be put on you.

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Sep 5, 2008

RE: A clue?

If, you mean by the wording here, To go back to the place were THEY[/b] fell in love, I would say he still has not accepted the fact that relationship is over.

You are not being silly. You are voicing valid concerns, as would I. My parents always told us you needed both: to Love the other person and to BE IN Love WITH the other person and I suscribe to this myself.
For him to say he needs you to go back to this place to be able to fall in love with you, tells me he is in a state where he is either trying to 'Transfer' his feelings. or 'Substitute' you for the other person. He is also trying to continue a past relationship with another.

I know people who have done this and they are unhappy. I only know of one couple who is happy having done the transfergence thing. I don't know how they manage to be happy. I could not.

I think a relationship should be unique, special and allowed to develope in its own way not to serve as a replacement for a old relationship.

Tread very carefully. You have these misgivings for a very good reason. Listen to your inner voice. Best of luck to you.

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Sep 5, 2008

RE: What a woman really wants...........................

Yeah, that'll work too!

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Sep 5, 2008

RE: My Dad - Post a Wish Thread

And You RW. . . You are a good son! Don't let yourself get worn out. You take a few "me minutes" too, to recharge. You both are in the prayers of many of us here @CS

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Sep 5, 2008

RE: My Dad - Post a Wish Thread

Hi Armas!

Get WELL Soon!

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RE: What do you think about bachelor/ess parties?.................

RE: What do you think about bachelor/ess parties?.................

RE: What do you think about bachelor/ess parties?.................

RE: What is the person above you doing in bed II ?

RE: What is the person above you doing in bed II ?

RE: How do i handle this situation?

RE: I noticed something

RE: Happy Birthday Markiza!!!

RE: Dancing Amongst Tears

RE: What do you think about bachelor/ess parties?.................

RE: ...thoughts...

RE: What is the person above you doing in bed II ?

RE: What do you think about bachelor/ess parties?.................

RE: A quote that inspires you?

RE: What do you think about bachelor/ess parties?.................

RE: learn a new language?

RE: learn a new language?

RE: do you think pot (weed) is good or bad

RE: do you think pot (weed) is good or bad

RE: do you think pot (weed) is good or bad

RE: love and turning 50

RE: With or without goatee???

RE: A clue?

RE: If i fell in love with you

RE: What is the best way to break up with someone?

RE: What is the best way to break up with someone?

RE: A clue?

RE: What a woman really wants...........................

RE: My Dad - Post a Wish Thread

RE: My Dad - Post a Wish Thread

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