There have been quite a few, whom have gotten married and I, believe submitted to CS their wedding pics/videos/blogs.
A few that I do know of: Mindful, Kansan, Peaches, Kissmedeeply, And of course their respective spouses, (sorry all, trying to keep it short, my own special guy coming online soon when he gets off of work).
Have you ever faced this, with friends, colleagues, school mates, loved ones?
Sweetie, I, also, do not know the story, nor do I really want too. I have read what you posted, several times. Each time I do, I come back to one paragraph that stands out and it is this paragraph,(highlighted), that I believe answers the whole question.
After this one paragraph, are the next two passages(different highlights) which I will also touch on b/c they also speak.
This paragraph I am going to break up abit and then comment on:
The person who betrayed me, has the audacity to 'explain' things to his friends, remember, suddenly they can't say a word to me and i get the blame.
This is the first thing that I noticed. This person, to me, is still fanning the embers.
I feel a person whom talks to people that know or know of (if this is involving people from CS), you, the person whom got hurt, and himself, then starts saying something to others and they cannot say anything to you, and you get the blame.
No. Not so.
This person is trying to make himself look like he was the one wronged. This to me, is the sign of someone whom is not mature enough to accept the responsibility for his part in a situation.
Someone whom does that, is not a friend and not worthy of your efforts to resolve things. By letting him make you feel guilty, you are giving him a victory he does not deserve. You are better off, just cutting out of this and holding your head high, letting go and moving on.
The second thing I noticed is: [/color] the person who accused me of this, has said nothing, NOTHING at all, while i keep getting blame for God knows what. I feel like i just cheated with a married man, yet i haven't. Explaining yourself doesn't help, because the person who has been 'hurt' says it's over, tells you to let it go, but clearly they haven't.
This sounds to me like the person whom got hurt, is another woman and like she got broadsided as much as you. She may need to have some time or she may truly like you and feel that she does not want to loose you as friend. It may be that right now she is too torn, to have you explain any thing. I'm not sure here.
This whole post makes me ask, this:This confidence you shared, when you shared it with the Guy, did you know he was involved with or close to the woman whom got hurt before you shared it with him? That could really answer much here.
Either way, you have done your best to apologize, now you need to let time handle the rest.
This next sentence:Here's the funny thing, before the accusations, you get so uneasy, you decide to stop communication.,
[color=darkolivegreen]Lusci, Sweetie, That was your intuition. Honey, when you feel this, You should ALWAYS drop a situation and step back from it.
This next passage: [color=mediumvioletred]Now, everyone else gets comforted and you get nothing but blame. Tell me, should i who was told i did nothing wrong (which i didn't) be the one to blame for this hurt?
[color=darkgreen]This gets pretty much the same answer I gave when I opened this. No. You should not get the blame. You need to just let go and walk away.
Many have given you good advice here, Dru, Sparky, MF,and others I can't remember who all posted now. You are going to have to accept our comfort and just let time sort the rest out. Remember, Sweetie, we are all of us on the outside looking into the situation and we cannot give you an absolute opinion on the situation.
Wow what a sign of mutual respect! I like this. Really like this idea. As for me, I took my Husband's name and retained it when we divorced. I am not sure what I would do if I ever remarried, take my new husband's name or go back to my maiden( Hyphenated) new husband's name.
Now, that the third option has been presented, I really am leaning to this...Thanks for the idea Sweet!..
I bet you sister is mortified, but glad it was you and not your Dad whom she inadvertedly sent the text to.
Being Deaf, Text definitely a, Loved thing for me. I have only once sent a text to the wrong person but it was never a big deal. I have never um, used Text for um, any kind of propositioning.
I have recieved text from a person whom was interested in my ex-fiance, after he and I had reconciled. She forwarded a text that he had sent her, while he and I had broken up. Guess she did not like the idea that he had gotten back together with me @ that time, and wanted to cause trouble.
LOL, she forwarded the same text to me a few months later after I broke up with him, again, for the final time b/c of his cheating. Guess she did not know @ that time he was free, permanently!
I have always used PC's and as a Techie am a Complete Athalon chip fan. Have both PC and an older Mac System. I do like both.
However, after trying the new Mac's @ school, OMG!!!! I am soooooo IMPRESSED with them, ( excuse me, I need to do a Drool Check).
I am planing on my next Desktop being the New Mac. I am considering a MacBook as well. But I still like the Toshiba notebooks that use the Athalon chips
Oh! No, it is not you it is me. Academic Studying and Contracts and stuff. Yes, I remember now. You were going to teach me a few things about our Ancestors.
Yes, absolutely I definitely want to do this. Thanks Cali.
I want to thank-you for this Thread. Albert Einstein, has been one of my heros since I was a little girl.
I used to check everything I could find out from the Library about him and his Theory of Relativity when I was in Elementary School. I started in 3rd grade and to this day, I still do.
I also take every new course offered @ CWRU in Astrophysics, Physics, and The Theories of Relativity.
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