IF is a big little word that is all about dreaming and suggesting a need or want. When is a word I like more. When someone comes into you life that cradles your heart it is wonderful on every level.
I read an article on this once. Men tend to choose visually, so our pic is te first thing they look for. After that apparantly it is the first sentence you say in your profile that catches their attention. They don't like to read long profiles. I know there are gender differneces in how we do things, but if you take this piece of information on, it kinda makes sense.
It would lead from that then, that the next thing a man who is interested in you would do, is to tell you that he liked what he saw. A conversation could go anywhere from that couldn't it, maybe even to a full blown relationship?
I like all body parts, all sizes all shapes and all kinds. I like to draw and paint from life. No point hating feet and leaving them out of a painting just because I don't like them......
I think there is something to appreciate even in the oddest (generally speaking),looking body parts, even if it's only the way the light hits it, or how it creates a shadow or how it's posed......
Being an artist is kinda like being in love. You are blinded to all but the overall picture.......
I had a guy on here aged 35 bombard me with e mails castigating me for not being interested in him and telling me I had a problem when I wouldn't consider him. (Still don't know for WHAT exactly because I blocked him before he could tell me).
To you this might be a case of a 3 and a 5, (I'm 53 to his 35), but to me it isn't.
I feel like I have lived 100 lifetimes in my 53 years and he's still fresh out of nappies, (diapers for our American friends). I don't see a damn thing other than being human that we'd have in common, unless he's looking for a mother and I've already raised 7+ kids so I certainly don't want that.
Maybe it's that older women with less than perfect bodies are less judgemental, or maybe he never learned to mix with his own age group. I don't know. I'd have thought that a young man would have had young expectations, like having a family and such, things he could never do with an older woman.
There's no accounting for taste though, or what drives people........
gingerb Forum Posts (4,139)
RE: If there was one thing you could have known about your last partner before you met them...
How controlling and manipulative he was.