You obviously feel it is a factor in whether you get dates or not, so I would deduce from that, that you are not quite comfortable with it the way it is.
A compromise would be to have it styled and keep the length, or if you felt more comfortable with it short before this, then cut it again.
Either way it just looks like you let it grow and didn't bother with it in the last while, so that might reflect your personality as someone who doesn't care about their appearance and that might be off-putting to some people.
I have reached that place and come out the other side. I am content and happy with myself but not by myself, not for a prospective 30+ more years. I actually love company and sharing and being with someone. Obviously it has to be the right someone, and I am willing to wait for that, but a companion to go places with and do things with and share stuff with is something I definitely want in my future.
Is it just a notion to me trublu, or do you have some unresolved anger issues, like maybe at the whole world, and the fact it is not the way you'd like it to be?
I hope everything works out for you Joshtaal. You deserve a bit of happiness. You have courage, kindness and fortitude and that should bode well for any relationship.
Everyone to his/her own. Does talking online not make you wish you could have those pals or relationships in real life though. Isn't getting a real hug better and don't you miss it?
Although like you I suppost their right to do so, I can't help thinking, what a waste of a lifetime, when they could have someone who would genuinely love them in ways they probably never even dreamed of.
I understand what you are saying and you are open about not finding someone. You haven't ruled out meeting someone though, you just state not from an internet site. But people are still real people whether you run into them on the street or on here you still have to meet them, and they could be living down your street anyway.
This wasn't aimed at you specifically.
It would be a pity though if all men on the fourms felt the same as you because there would be alot of women sadly disappointed who are looking for genuine partners.
It just seems weird to me that on many of the threads I hear men complain about women outnumbering them and they say women play games etc so they can't get a date or find a partner, but there are genuine single women on this site looking for serious relationships and unattached men apparantly not even looking in their direction. Same vice versa.
What's up with that? All this "I'm only here for the forums " crap doesn't wash with me. If people only wanted to talk then the first place they would look wouldn't be a dating site. People in general join sites like this looking for someone compatible or comparible with themsleves with a view to getting to know and even having a relationship with them, not to spend years just sitting addicted to their computers chatting endlessly about finding someone they will never have. That scenario doesn't even make sense.
I do understand that sites like this are full of people that have special needs in the relationship department, like being at home as a carer, or being commited to looking after old relatives or kids, some have mental illnesses, some low self esteem, some are just hurt, or a myriad other reasons, but get real people, if we come here surely we have to take the logs out of our own eyes and at least begin to look earnestly for what we came here for in the first place.... our own special companion, helpmeet, partner, husband/wife, and not just sitting her making wishes at a computer screen.
You sound disheartened. No interest at all? You are a nice lady so it's hard to fathom why you haven't at least had dates. I found on another dating site that because there were so few in my area, I was out of options after meeting one or two. This site actually had more Irish people on it than some Irish sites.
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RE: BnaturAls HorrorScopes- July 18/08
You could do one-liners for dailys.