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RE: True to oneself/self sabotage

You too Hugs

This is my big shovel day , trying to shift out as much bulls@it as possible......

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

I thought you meant a hole in the whole......

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

How would you invert perfection?

RE: I am quite save to believe I am the oldest on this forum..........

There are even people with their own dark rooms..

RE: True to oneself/self sabotage

Curiousity is good!!!

It's the line between truth and lies, to the self or others.

It's the line where we break trust with ourselves or others.

RE: what is love? Can you define?

Love just is..........

What makes us feel it, now that is a different matter.........

RE: True to oneself/self sabotage

Only way anyone gets to like us is to see us warts and all even if those warts are really beauty spots.......

RE: True to oneself/self sabotage

Lying about the bad stuff is one thing.

Lying about the good stuff, how stupid is that????

RE: True to oneself/self sabotage

Agreed.

I'd add to that, that telling people we are less than we really are, is only lying to fit in, or having false modesty to please people, and that is something I'd never do.

If I'm good at something I say so. If a person doesn't like it then they have a problem with their own self esteem.

Self sabotaging is a horrible thing to do to oneself. People never really get to know you that way.

RE: True to oneself/self sabotage

If anyone has a problem with who or what they perceive me to be, then they have a perception problem.....

If that keeps them from getting close or knowing me , then they lose out... Who wants someone close to them who wants to change them into something else? It just makes for fights about who they want you to be. No acceptance there. We are who we are.......

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

That would have to be a gold crown then, unless you're an ivory princess......

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

Pyar people don't see me as perfect either, that is the whole point of this thread, they just think I see myself that way....

It's only someone opinion, even if it's not mine....

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

A royal tooth no less

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

Hi Nuala,

Couldn't possibly aspire to those heights..

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

Hi Pyar. Hope you're having a good day.....

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

Reminds me of when I was little and my mother lifted me by the ear so hard I was on my tip-toes even though I knew I'd done nothing wrong... I always stood ther though. Never avoided a situation good or bad in my life. Must be a fool....

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

Well at least I turned up to get castigated......

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

I did notice that. Sounds like an Ambrose thread to get to the bottom of it.......

RE: New To Sight

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

Night Babe

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

Beats me how not being a complete f@ck up can piss someone off anyway........

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

Morning Claayer

RE: Money Wasters Are u one of them?

RE: Money Wasters Are u one of them?

As you get older you realise that other people don't appreciate paying your bills.

You are on your own.

Your life and how you live it is your responsibility.

If, like me, you like to travel or something like that, or for younger people buy a house or whatever, then you have to save and not just a part of your wages but also be economical with what you have. No clothes or shoe buying sprees, 15 kinds of make up, leaving all the lights on, making big utility bills, wasting what you do have.......

It's habit forming. What you do now, you will still be doing in 50 years time and you will never have anything and always be a burden to someone. You will never have any real friends either since no one wants to be pulling you out for money every time you meet them...

It just makes sense is all, to be careful with money and use it wisely and value it when you get it.

You won't be young and able to work forever, and you never know what day it will happen that you can't do it anymore. That day has to be saved for if you don't want to end up scraping pennies and having a crap life or no quality of life.

Write down everyhere every penny goes each week. You will see a pattern emerging, and more than that, you will begin to see who and what you are and how you behave ...

If you think you can't manage your own money, then give it every week to someone you trust who can.....

RE: Money Wasters Are u one of them?

Nope. I'm the opposite. I'm quite frugal. A little goes a long way.

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

Well now you know!!! I guess that some don't think others see them that way. Maybe they don't even see themselves that way......

No accounting for how people look at stuff. There's a lot of self delusion out there

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

Not looking for pity. Just a fact of life.

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

Haven't been that fortunate.

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??

I wondered that too Ship, but nobody else but you had the balls to come out and say so or comment.

RE: Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??