RE: What wakes you up in the mornings? Each morning, most mornings..

I set my internal alarm and wake up ten minutes before it goes off.laugh

Usually it's birdsong that is the first thing I hear. I love birds.wine

RE: lyrics to a favorite love song

San Francisco.Scott Mc Kenzie.

If you're going to San Francisco
Be sure to wear some flowers in your hair
If you're going to San Francisco
You're gonna meet some gentle people there

For those who come to San Francisco
Summertime will be a love-in there
In the streets of San Francisco
Gentle people with flowers in their hair

All across the nation such a strange vibration
People in motion
There's a whole generation with a new explanation
People in motion people in motion

For those who come to San Francisco
Be sure to wear some flowers in your hair
If you come to San Francisco
Summertime will be a love-in there

If you come to San Francisco
Summertime will be a love-in there
peace

RE: So, happy campers...

I've used that as a conversation opener inmails from men before now...

"What do you want?" Often saves a lot of time..........wine

RE: So, happy campers...

I agree wholeheartedly. There is so much more you can decipher by phone. Reactions and interactions especially.thumbs up

RE: So, happy campers...

That is exactly how I think.

Nothing odd about it.

Life is too short to be entertaining players and time wasters.thumbs up

RE: Toxic Memes?

Just from observing things, ( and I do a lot of that), it would appear that there is some credence to the theory though.

If it were proven to be true then we'd really have to censor thought andprojections not only in ourselves but in future generations......

Weird concept if you take that to it's conclusion and how it might be managed.wine

BN certainly pulls it out of the hat in the thinking department.confused conversing

RE: I have news :)

Congratulations on your wonderful news. At least the escitment of being a Nana will keep you from feeling too tired. Timing is everything.thumbs up

RE: Toxic Memes?

Memes, as I understand it, have to do with what we accept as norms or conditioning or commonalities on a personal level, generated by word spreading or media coverage or accepted views and conditioning from birth.

"Memeticists argue that the memes most beneficial to their hosts will not necessarily survive; rather, those memes that replicate the most effectively, spread best, which allows for the possibility that successful memes may prove detrimental to their hosts."

This is a quote that scares me a little in that if it is true to any extent, then what we believe or think or accept as part of our personalities can actually harm us in a big way, suggesting that negative thinking takes off and personifys faster than positive thought.

It strikes me, in the thinking that all muslims are considered bad or have ill intent, or that is is ok to shoot people if they are not in your gang, or wearing the "right" clothes, we are personifying that as our reality.

These types of memes, accepted on a worldwide scale could end in the destruction of the planet as we know it, and negative memes about the environment or ecology getting worse are more widespread and have the potential to destroy what we eat and how we live etc., ending in the destruction of humanity.

If the professionals are right about this theory, then what we think and how much we commonly accept about our world is really important for everyone.

If this is the case, then we are generating our own wars, hunger, poverty, selfishness, disregard for our fellow beings and ultimately our own end and not in any good way, just by what we accept and think and believe.

I have long suspected that this might be true, but didn't have aname for the theory before. It's a sobering synopsis.wine

RE: Visitng the USA - Recommendations

They are magical. I could see where you would be distracted.

Forgot to mention the artist's colonies and craft villages there too.

If you collect art or unusual pieces you'd be in Heaven.

RE: Visitng the USA - Recommendations

Forgot to tell you about the Loretto Chapel in Santa Fe. It reputed to be the oldest in America and has that staircase in it made with no nails. There was a film made about it.

The chapel was built and had a balcony but apparnantly they forgot to make a staircase up to it. The space was so small that they couldn't build an ordinary staircase to it and prayed for a miracle.

One day a man called Joseph turned up who happened to be a carpenter and built a circular staircase using only the wood and no nails. It has no centre column and scientists say it defies gravity. It is still there to this day, though they have since built a guard rail along the side of it so people don't fall off.

This is the link to read about it.



The restaurants in NM are fantastic too, especially the Mexican food.

RE: Visitng the USA - Recommendations

It's a huge place to explore. I've done sever trips lasting a month each and stilldon't feel I've even touched the tip of the iceberg. which remind me, I haven't been to Alaska yet... I hear it's clattered in huge mosquitoes though.

In New Mexico I went to a place with waterfalls comming out of hot springs that were 5,000 ft up and the water was warm, falling in to little pools that you could just relax in. Can't remember the name of the place now though. Maybe someone from there could help out with that. The native Americans in the north west were called Zuni and have an amazing culture. I spent hours talking to a medicine man there. They mine turquoise in NM too and they have shops specialising in selling it, in many attractive jewellery forms there. I think you'd like it in NM for the variety if nothing else.

RE: Visitng the USA - Recommendations

New Mexico is very different and hardly any mosquitoes at all. Santa Fe is beautiful. Carlesbad Caverns are a must and you can see all the alien stuff in Boswell. Lots of hot springs to visit too and waterfalls. The adobe buildings are very different from waht you see elsewhere too and lots of desert and cactus and such. Some beautiful scneic drives into the mountains outside Albuquerque too.

The southern states, I found were very humid and full of mosquitoes, such as Alabama, Mississippi, Kentucky and Tennessee though the scenery was beautiful, especially the Alabama hills.wine

RE: what is your biggest memory problem

You also missed out "all of the above" rolling on the floor laughing

RE: Equality, do women really want it

Nothing I could say to that Ship.

Could never hpe to understand that as a mindset.

It makes no logical sense to me.

RE: Equality, do women really want it

Are you saying that a woman has to be willing to die to prove to you she is equal?rolling on the floor laughing

What if, some women, like some men, are pacifists????

How would they prove equality then?????

I can't even believe you think like this. You're kidding , right?

RE: Equality, do women really want it

You mean she doesn't???????????rolling on the floor laughing

RE: I am determined to maintain the perpendicular position.

Who's us? Is this from the book too?

RE: Equality, do women really want it

It's nice sometimes to feel old aches and look back and smile while you remember where you got them. It makes old age very pleasant.

I've loved every last second of my life so far and wouldn't trade an ache for any part of it. Asante sana for the memories Lucious.

You are a sweet lady.bouquet

RE: Equality, do women really want it

rolling on the floor laughing hi Bob wave

RE: Equality, do women really want it

Yes two stools along the sides of a little van (in those days), and about 20+ people piled in there with chickens, and anything else you could imagine. It was a great experience though, and they loudly blared very fast paced African music all the way.

RE: Equality, do women really want it

Mandazi, I had forgotten them. I could have eaten them by the ton.
They were sooo sweet and tempting, much better than the doughnuts you get here or America.

My mouth is watering now.

RE: Equality, do women really want it

Yes I took matatus everywhere. They are the ultimate experience in travel I think.rolling on the floor laughing

RE: Have you.....?

Nobody old enough for me to have a crush on here, but a few younger men have been kind enough to befriend me, for which I am eternally grateful.

Now if I were 20 years younger, I'd give them a run for their money...rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

RE: Equality, do women really want it

Another thing I used to love were the charcoal roasted peanuts they sold at bus stations and the corn cobs roasted and bursting or the sesame seed balls you bought in pokes. The tastes and smells were wonderful. Also freshly squeezed passion fruit juice, ice cold.

RE: Equality, do women really want it

Chapatis are great with everything, and I liked the smosas they did there, and tusker used to go well with everything, especially if you were hot and hungry...

They even brewed Guinness in Nairobi. Didn't taste ike it does here but it was good.

RE: Equality, do women really want it

I'm nearly homesick for Kenya myself now.laugh

It just doesn't taste the same anywhere else in the world.

RE: Equality, do women really want it

I used to love that done locally. It was my favourite thing to eat there.

RE: Equality, do women really want it

I know Lillym will have the time of her life, especially with you to show her around.wine

RE: Equality, do women really want it

I loved Nairobi and all the Bougainvillia growing in the streets. It has a wonderful atmosphere. I have walked in the streets f Mombasa many times late at night and stayed in Nyali beach for over a month once. Pwople are so helpful and polite and friendly to everyone.

I loved the multicultural mixes and how everyone gets on with everyone else. I spent two years in Kenya altogether and will never forget it.

RE: Equality, do women really want it

Sorry Tater.

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