not at all but the kids lived with me so decisions like that were my call as far as I am concerned, my girls are teenagers now and if I was to consult him on every haircut and color would never be off the phone.
actually tha only time I did tell him I was cutting her hair was when she had alopecia and the doc said to cut it short
My youngest daughter was two when I split with my ex. Have never asked him regarding cutting her hair and to be honest if had offered an opinion I would have told him to stuff it,,sorry but why sweat the small stuff.
but if he treated you badly it wasnt love,,,I remember some months after my ex and I split, they children were asleep and I was sitting watching tv,a feeling of such lonelyness came over me it was like a physical pain and in that moment I would have welcomed him back, then I asked myself 'what was I missing, was it the way he would shout at me and belittle me or was it his dinner plate flying across the room if I cooked the wrong food or was it the sitting waiting for his key in the door and worrying what type of mood he was in?'
It will take time but alone is not necessarily lonely
oh yes, making toast on the fire, I loved that and my dad would throw whatever was left ovr from dinner into the pan and heat it up, never were there tastier suppers
oh yes, making toast on the fire, I loved that and my dad would throw whatever was left ovr from dinner into the pan and heat it up, never were there tastier suppers
Your evening sounds idylic and Is your life totally but that still reads to me that you are doing as he wants and you are changing who you are for him...
vonney Forum Posts (6,371)
RE: Hi Everyone, . I'm new to this, be kind !
Ah god no you wont be feeling stupid,,,you could be right,Jim Bowie was a character in the wild west.