navygirl1 Forum Posts (1,586)

RE: All lies

Thanks just have been quite busy trying to get my business up and going.

RE: Are women really here to meet a man?

Hard to meet a man for a relationship when there are so many game players here.

RE: All lies

I didn't know craigslist had personals. Being realistic, I doubt very much one can meet their lifemate on a dating site. I think the best anyone can hope for on a dating site is just a friend.

RE: All lies

There seems to be a lot of lies on this site along with the scammers. Very frustrating as its such a waste of one's time.

Love is Pointless

So what should I call the cult? Hmm, a Borg Xena. Will have to do that for the next sci fi convention here in Calgary. It certainly would be original.

Love is Pointless

Thanks for your kind words.

Love is Pointless

Thanks for the chuckle. Nah, you are not a sentimental idiot. I am not down on love or relationships and I would encourage others to find that person that compliments their life. I just don't have anything to offer at this point of my life to a potential mate. Many would beleive I am selfish but I am putting my needs first. I am involved with 4 bands, 3 part times businesses, doing renos, making costumes, and working a full time job. I am now looking at serving in Afghanistan. So, for all logical reasons, I don't want to try and get into a relationship as it wouldn;t be fair to him. I am not ready to give up on any of my hobbies or work for a relationship.

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Thanks for your kindd words, but its not about being hurt; just about opening my eyes. Its all good. I consider myself quite blessed with what I do have and not what I don't.

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Oh well, you see it negative, I see it as making something positive out of my life.

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Thanks but nothing to be sad of my friend. Its all good. It was just a view point of mine and the last thing I wanted to do is upset anyone.

Love is Pointless

If you don't like this post, then why did you come on here?

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Okay, take care.

Love is Pointless

Of course not. It just gave me alot to think about and where my direction of life should be going.

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I just don't want to hurt anyone if I don't make it back from overseas.

Love is Pointless

No, I never said that. Just seeing how bitter other people were about love made me think that I didn't want to be there. I would never tell you that love is bitter and twisted; just saying it isn't for me. I do hope you find the love you are looking for.

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You are too funny blues.

Love is Pointless

I can't seem to make it clear to anyone; its not about giving up, its about changing my priorities. Life is wonderful and I whole heartedly agree. It doesn't stop just because I don't want to love someone. I can do so much good in the world and feel fullfilled.

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Well perhaps but its not that important. It will all depend if I even make it back alive, so not thinking that far in the future.

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I am not running away from love because of hurt or bitterness, I have just found something new to focus my life on. Its a good thing and I am happy that I discovered it now before I hurt someone.

Love is Pointless

No, the other bitter people just opened my eyes. I just know there is much more to life than love and companionship. I want to make a difference in the world and can't do it with someone in my life. Yes, I need to keep my emotions under wraps and doing that with mediation. Its all good.

Love is Pointless

I am hoping to make a difference in the world by serving overseas and helping those less fortunate. I am not hoping to find anyone as I don't want to put anyone through the pain if something were to happen to me.

Love is Pointless

Oh, don't cry for me Blues.

Love is Pointless

Well, not all people were meant to be alone, but some certainly were. I realize some people need that other person to complete their life, but I don't. I have other goals in my life and just don't think that love is what I need to complete me. This is not a bad thing for me, its an awakening.

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Yes, I agree that the love of life will bring me love but it doesn't have to be with a person.

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Yes exactly. I saw the bitterness and it made me think that I would be making a mistake getting into a relationship/love and could end up the same way. Also, it made me think that I am looking for the wrong thing at this time of my life. I have to discover who I am and where I am going. Love would only get in the way.

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Thanks for you kind words, but I have more to do with my life. Its not about love; its about discovering who I am. A relationship/love is not going to complete my life, so I have to search out what will.

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Thanks for understanding what I am trying to say. I didn't want anyone's pity; I was really thanking those who had opened my eyes. I thought love and relationship would complete me, but I realize there is something more I was meant to do. Its just an awakening for me. Its all good. I am glad you are over you marriage breaking up. There is just so much more to life than love but that is just how I see it.

Love is Pointless

Thanks for your thoughts but I am not bitter; just taking a logical approach to this. Love/realtionships are a waste of time to me as I see no reason to persue one. I have many wonderful things to look forward to other than love. I am quite happy with my life.

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Its really okay. I just decided it wasn't for me. I am not hurt or bitter, or lonely, or any of the above. It was a sound logical choice that was analyzed and thought through. I am not sad, but actually happy. I have many things in life to look forward to; just don't want love/relationships getting in the way. But thanks for your thought.

Love is Pointless

You may be right but I know I just don't want or need it in my life. I have more important things to think about.