UGH! I hate to hear tragic stories like this. The judge has really done a disservice to the people of Canada, and spit on the graves of the parents and brother.
Prediction...she will date her therapist in rehab and get out at age 16. I am not making light of this, but I bet this could happen.
Even though it didn't work out, I am so glad I did take the chance. She lived 650 miles away, but my life has become so much the better for taking that risk.
Just about all of them. I rarely watch TV and only go to a few movies. It has sunk so low...we have tv shows dedicated to what is on tv. We have shows dedicated to who is cheating on who, or what rehab are they in now.
And the awards shows....they glorify these hucksters so shamlessly...makes ya sick!
But I understand why people like to escape reality sometimes...and tv and movies are as good an escape as anything else out there...to each their own!
I know what you are going through. It is like banging your head against a brick wall. You try to understand the situation, but the more you think about it, the more pain it causes you.
I have been doing the same thing for a month now. I have decided to let her go. I have decided to try to get on with my life. You need to take a break from your own thoughts. Take a short vacation, start to do something you really like to do. I walk alot, and I have been doing alot of that lately. It clears my head and makes me feel better physically, and emotionally.
Allow her some time to think about things also. She has been hurt in the past, so it might take some time and understanding for her to realize she can trust you. Take a week or 2 and then try again.
I use to weigh 340 lbs. I lost 120 last year by walking twice a day. I broke my arm badly this summer, and could not walk, so I gained 50 lbs back. But I am back to walking again 16 miles a day.
It has become a hobby for me. I can't go a day without doing it...I love to walk (living at the beach helps the scenery alot). Can walking be considered a hobby?
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