This will sound uncaring, hypocritical, and two faced, but I do like some bigger women, but not obese women. I was very overweight myself and recently have lost 120 lbs. I need to lose about 25 more. I believe anyone can diet and exercise to lose weight..ANYONE. Any excuses are just that...excuses. Some women say "they are comfortable who they are", but if they were, why bring up the fact that you are bigger, or large?
I dated a woman who was 5'9" and weighed 185 lbs. She was tall and large, but not obese. I loved her very much, and at that time I weighed about 200lbs...very thin for me. I hope this post doesn't offend anyone, but large women should lose weight if they are obese...for your health and long term happiness. If men had any guts and were honest like I am, they would say the same things I am. Almost all men prefer women who are not obese--sounds shallow but it is true. Do it for yourself..diet and exercise..that is the secret to losing weight. Very few people have medical excuses for being obese. Good luck and I am sorry for the rant..like I said, I was fat myself recently.
I gave up a concert ticket in 1984 to see Bruce Springsteen...what an idiot I was!! I only had 1 ticket and she wanted to go...so I just handed it to her
Here in North Myrtle Beach, SC. A great dinner at the best restaurant, The Sea Captains House. Then a drive to the beach cabana that our community owns and a moonlit dance on the cabana deck with the ocean in the background. A long slow kiss, then a slow romantic walk on the beach holding each other. Then we go home and hold each other and gaze in each other's eyes. and then....
Your love and respect for your children are endearing and noble. Can you date without getting the guy involved with your children? I am sorry if this is too personal...maybe e-mail would be better...
Yes--met someone and fell for her...she had to move away, but it does work. Keep posting to forums, get a picture up, e-mail and flower women and be patient! Good luck.
RE: Beware of these Words..."I HAVE NO MONEY & NOTHING TO OFFER, ONLY LOVE"
I have no money and nothing to offer..only love.