Women without pics should put one up no matter what. We all judge people's appearances...we ALL do. Men without pics should also put one up there. Just my opinion
No the mother in Texas drowned her kids in the bathtub. A woman in South Carolina drove her 2 kids into a lake and blamed an innocent man. Does mental illness affect the label of "good and evil"? Are they good people who's illness drove them to do bad or evil things? Or are they evil people who's illness heightened their evilness?
I hope you find what you are looking for. If you are having trouble finding someone to love you, you have the power to change that. It is unfortunate, but we are all human and make judgements about people's appearances weather you like it or not. We all do it. And I don't think many men are looking for a Barbie Doll type body. There are alot of shapes and sizes in between...that is up to the individual.
I stated in an earlier post that I do like large women, but not obese women. I also like thin women...in between women...short women...tall women. There are alot of types of appearances that I do like. And there are some that do not appeal to me. If we were all honest, we can admit to that. Sure it's very noble to say "it's whats inside that counts". I agree with that statement, to a degree. Attraction based on physical appearance is also part of being human. It sounds shallow, but it is true. I have seen many woman's expressions drastically change for the worse when they got a look at me. I don't have any animosity towards them...it is just human nature. When I was fat, I know alot of women looked at me and thought very negative thoughts. But I did something about it, and if you are in the same boat as I was, so can you!
By the way, I went to a doctor before I lost weight. That is very important.
Sorry for your loss--never had any experience like that, but it seems logical for you to want to see where it happened. If it makes you feel better, go ahead and do it.
However----there is nothing wrong for a person to want comforts of life. A nice home...food on the table everyday. Some money stashed for retirement. So "material" can mean creature comforts that I think everyone wants. Nothing wrong for people to work hard and obtain things in life that make them happy. To each his own...
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RE: What have you used a kitchen utensil for besides cooking?
westdeck--why all the old threads? I am not complaining, just wodering?I once used a refrigerator to separate my shoulder.