My father has always been telling me one thing, 'If you lose something, it means God is going to give you something bigger than that, so instead of feeling sad, prepare yourself for bigger thing (means don't regret, just keep going)"
both are connected with each other. Both act as catalysts for each other. Both are important but in the end only the feeling remains. But sometimes only thinking remains, the feeling towards it ends.
How much control do you have upon yourself?Do you have control upon your bad feelings? Or do feelings dominating upon you? What do you do to get rid of your bad feelings? Or do you just leave it? ego, jealousy, hatred, anger, greed, lust, fear, etc. mostly dominating upon us. Some feelings become so dominant that our identity becomes according to that feeling, that becomes our nature. Such people are called: arrogant person, greedy person, jealous person, angry person, etc.
If feelings are under our control then all are useful.
What is life for?
Have you done anything in your life that makes you feel proud of yourself?If I say about myself, I could not do anything like this. But even I didn't do anything that I should be ashamed of myself.