You understood correctly my English, S,A had one of the highest divorce rate in the 70ties,and of cousce there are many reason for a divorce but to my mind, immaturity is first,as they get married not to be married for ever,as in the back of their mind is this "" we get married and if does not work,we get a divorce"". I got married in S.A and divorced there as well,my son visiting his mother (non Greek,and remarried and divorced again) over last Christmas, was saying to him, ""your father was right,we in SA have not learn to believe or want to stay married,as in many situations, we believe divorce,is the easy way out"".-During sixties and seventies very few divorces in Greece,nowdays three to five marriages, end up in divorce,who's to blame, i donnt know, certainly the modern way of living has something to do with it,though is very sad, when involves children.- If marriage vows MEAN something, steadily year after year MEANS less to more people.
Hi leostartingover, your very last paragraph,and i quote "" courage to get a divorce or at least separate and be open and honest about the life you lead"",as i lived for 22 years in JHB, ""age and maturity"" is lacking in SA,thats way the sky rocketing divorce rate,as about, divorce first or separate,and lead your own life, forget it, the percentage is extremely low.-
You know some men think this way. " I like the woman but the kids".A lot of men they try to avoid the responsibility of rising the kids of somebody else, in otherwords donnt feel for the woman enough and say " myself,her and kids together".In my age, am not going to get involve with a woman having youg school going kids. I know is very hard most of the times for divorced women with kids,and has been discused many times on CS. My self twice living together with women having kids of their own, broke the relationship, as soon they started critize the behavior of my son,while myself, to my opinion, i was behaving to their kids,like being my own.-
Am sure you would, and those moments stay with us for a long time,again those critical moments when a person "go" am not very sure,if they can feel the love and affection of the people next to them.-
The two examples very unusual,but you do find them.- Is up to you what you want,a complicated or uncomplicated life.- I wish you next time,an uncomplicated situation comes along.-
Realy does happen?, better retract then fast,and do you think if i donnt retract, is a possibility of contacting me?.-Of cource you are a decent person, i was just making a humorous statement.-
Remember is not the ""BERLIN wall"" neither the Wall of Jericho, is about a security wall,called borders,plus the right of non interference with the 3 religions and if the two sides donnt come up with ideas ending this long conflict, i donnt know who can.
I'll suggest close the account the scammer/s know about and open a new one,or keep the account with the minimum amount the bank requires and again open a new one.-First option no harm done,second option insignificant loss.-
Probably Mrs Roxanne Fernandez thought, you and mastic55 are ,on the begging list.- Lucky guys 20% each, and 10% expences, only three of you can realy made it,with 4th person,you will fight it in courts, so harry up and ""ran for lilly"".
Is how has been translated in his own language " Operation Afghan Freedom" and needs money,for the long journey from Afghanistan to the cost of Turkey, to cross over our Aegean Thalassa, to have one more refugge on our back.
So SB,what half of Isrealis expect from an Commission of Inguiry? Lets say the Commandant found "responsible' for the killing of the 9 on Mavi Marmara. To be found responsible of killings in Israel is a honor, and a sure ticket to be after 20 years,the Prime MInister of your country,like Ariel Sharon,( see my post in this thread,page 39 ). It is realy strange in your own country, a Israeli commission to find mr Sharon "personal" and " indirectly responsible" for the massacre of Sabra and Shatila in Lebanon, and instead of going to jail,to become the Prime MInister of your country.
Quite right,have some fun,prolog his anxiety,telling him that, only when you are absolutely sure about your feeling,you going to give him,your email, and for the time being emails between you and him,only through CS, and when your tired of the game, give him a scammer's email address.
RE: What guy would you go for - hard without knowing their personality I know
With each one of them, she can go on a trial period,lets say for a month.