Most people define love as a feeling you have. That is more times than not just lust and infatuation. As Arabella pointed out, real love takes time and work. Unfortunately, most people get together and marry because of lust and infatuation.
Does it seem like the man is putting you first in his life? Sometimes you just need to give it time in order to see if the other person is being genuine with you. Take things slow and see where it goes.
To me, love means putting the wants and needs of the other person ahead of my own. When the other person does the same for you, I imagine that it is a wonderful thing.
RE: Harleys.... tell me about yours or your dream bike....
I have one of those shirts