i agree with dio when he says it should be harder to get a divorce ,when i get married ,to me ,its for life no matter the circumstances ,i wont get nor give him a divorce no matter what happens .
whats the difference with being married and just living with someone ?(apart from the obvious) all week iv seen the same thing "il never get married again"
is it that bad ?
what would you say to a first timer wanting to get married ?? (yeah that would be me)
Anyone's life and reality can be defined by their "nevers" and transformed radically by changing just one of those "nevers" (or two or all three). I don't know if this is true but it started me wondering about my "nevers" and more.
I find it re-creative and FUN to consider the flip sides of Life! Duality is a dance...3 nevers can make a temporary dance floor...that will usually be remodeled and expanded. Alchemical transformation requires the spacetime limits of a container...3 nevers can make a brewing vessel that will shatter when Something New Under The Sun bursts forth in birth and flies.
Never is a word that just challenges fate. I try to have a few nevers.
Never make choices based on my needs/wants alone.
Never knowingly do things that create ill things in the world or contribute to them.
Never quit caring.
Never say never except in cases where you'd never do x or y.
marriage ??
no no-ones proposed just wondering