yes definitely. Similarly, some nature of the male can also become a cause of trouble for the female.
Some qualities will attract you and some will have to be tolerated by you.
If male and female want to be in relation, then strengthen their tolerance. no one is perfect and pure. Every human has both virtues and flaws. If you always avoid people for thier flaws and mistakes, then you will have to spend your life alone. Remember that you have also flaws. And someone else tolerates your flaws.
That's no excuse for not even making an effort, Decent. The behavior we expect from others for ourselves, we should treat others the same way.
If we talk about women, then she should also behave as she expects from others. This applies equally to both man and woman.
Because nature has given different qualities and responsibilities to male and female, so there will be some differences in their behavior. it just need to understand each other.
for example: Nature has made a female of a choosy nature so that she can give better things to the new generation (better gene, better accommodation, better nutrition, better future). This nature of her can be seen in everything she does, now whether to buy something or choose a partner.
Don't expect this choosy nature of a female to change, natural qualities can not be changed.
Sometimes we are not able to behave according to our own wish. for example: An angry man always wants to improve his angry behavior but every time when he gets angry, he can not stop himself and behaves badly. When we are not able to control our own behavior according to our own wishes, then how can we expect the behavior of others according to our wishes.
If you can overcome upon anger, greed, jealousy, ego, etc. your relationship with yourself will be sweeter, and you will become a great human being. But if you do not get control on them, then you will remain as a selfish person.
Honesty cannot be judged by just one thing. It is a common thing that no one in the world is 100% honest. You can say only new born baby is 100% honest. few people go to beauty parlor and apply cream, chemical on their face. Some apply hair dye to their hair. Some people make their Profile photos beautiful in Photoshop. Some people put beautiful photos of others in their profiles. Some people don't even put photos in their profiles.
etc......etc..
it means, It's stupidity to expect 100% pure honesty. Just keep in mind that our dishonesty should not harm anyone.
there is not any perfect formula to judge a person. Divorces and breakups are happening a lot in the world, that means no one knows how to judge. That is why instead of judging others, if we judge ourselves, then perhaps we will be able to make ourselves better.
If we look from the eyes of nature: The nature has created two types of human beings, male and female. Both have been given different qualities and responsibilities to make the life beautiful together. If we look from the eyes of human beings: Because we have grown up in different families, in different ideologies, in different societies, in different religions, in different countries, people have their own ambitions, desires, so there are differences among people. It is not possible to express all types. It's good to have differences, we just have to respect each other.
God is a matter of faith, it doesn't need any logic (how why). We can't know everything that's why we say "God knows". Whereas Buddha is a matter of logic (why how). If something is happening then there must be some reason behind it.
The reasoning (why how) is a matter of the mind. Faith is a matter of the soul.
In the incurable disease, the doctor gives up and says that now everything is in the hands of God. When the mind gets tired of reasoning, it resorts to faith. And faith needs no logic.
So we need both Buddha and God.
If we say logic and faith instead of saying Buddha and God, then life will be easier to understand. We also need logic in life and we also need faith.
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