Actually Trish yours is about the only long post I have ever read on here, I usually just pass them by. Having read yours I am going home to take out the bible and actually read some of it.
I dont think you can decide after speaking on MSN a few times that it is time to stop looking, I think it takes a lot more interaction than that to decide you want to start a relationship with someone.
As for being on the site such a short time, yes I think you are expecting to much. I have been over a year on the site and in that time have me one guy for coffee and had a date with another, thats it, very little contact of any description,
I have however made a few good friends and had many a great night out with them.
I was married for 14 years when we seperated, took 2 years of court appearances to reach an agreement, he had given up work to avoid child support, I was eventually awarded 20 euro a week for each child,,,,
Honestly not worth the hassle, a weeks grocery shopping here is 200 euro.
RE: You tread on my dreams......
Sorry you are feeling hurt hun.Have no explaination why ppl do these things