I was wondering if someone was going to point this out.
You really cant expect people who just join the site to realise that not everyone on it is looking to meet someone.
I dont feel there is a need for them to be rude about it but if you think about it before you joined here you thought of it as a dating site and thats why most ppl joined.
It wouldnt be my first consideration but yes it does come in to it. I can support myself and dont expect a man to do that for me, I do however want a man to be financially stable. Becoming unemployed can be out of someones control and once I felt that he was genuinely seeking employment I would be supportive. We have to be realistic, I have myself and 3 children to support I certainly dont want to add to that list.
I wouldnt date someone just because they had money though, have dated a rich guy but it wasnt a factor in our dating or our split.
I agree, I would much rather been shown that someone loves me than just hear the words. All to often the words are used to easily. As the old saying goes 'Actions speak louder than words'
As for the op, say it when you really mean it, after you have met and gotten to know each other.
I was left in so much debt when my ex and I split that it has left me in fear of it ever happening again. Thank God for it to be honest, would hate to have had loans out when I lost my job last year.
Terrible to think that you have to look at that possibility.
I have had to take a job which pays a lot less than my previous one and at first didnt see how I would manage, but we do, I know you feel you shouldnt have to and yes the cuts are unfair but we are very good at cutting out coats to match out cloth.
This is no reflection on Dustys Mother but my Father had a most peaceful death, he simply stopped breathing, but he was a very cruel and nasty man so I dont believe this theory.
Well his daughters assure me that they have advised him on this one, the youngest, god love, her was so excited last Friday that she told me that she had helped pick my present.
This series of ads were shown on tv here a few years ago. I smoked while I watched them.
Any smoker who says they dont know the consequences of smoking is lying or burying their head in the sand. As I smoker I know what I am doing, and this type of tactic doesnt make me stop, the addiction for now is stronger than that.
I like being single, I am dating someone but will never co-habit again, I like my space and to come and go as I please. We meet up at the weekend and have lots to talk about and have a laugh. suits me just fine
Oh yes I know that pain only to well. It really is only time that will help,it took 2 years before I could think of him without hurting. And no,lookimng for someone else before you have healed will not help.
It will NEVER happen again, I will not put myself in that position.
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RE: "A Right To Be Here...".
I was wondering if someone was going to point this out.You really cant expect people who just join the site to realise that not everyone on it is looking to meet someone.
I dont feel there is a need for them to be rude about it but if you think about it before you joined here you thought of it as a dating site and thats why most ppl joined.