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Apr 16, 2009

RE: Knocked up?

Um, actually guys, there ARE times a woman can be on the pill and it is not effective. Sometimes if a woman gets any kind of infection and needs Antibiotics, some popular antibiotics do render the pill ineffective. Smoking can, also, in some women make it ineffective.

It is possible that the woman MAY have been telling the truth about still beiing on the pil whilst she found she was preggers.

There are websites out there that talk about things that can and do for some women counterindicate the pill.

So the best remedey for both partners is for both t o assume responsibility

Apr 16, 2009

RE: Knocked up?

Unfortunately, you are right there are many that have done this. Usually, all are then miserable. The parents and the children.

I canna answer why some one would do this. I would not.

I can guess, that the girl is so scared and thinks she canna immagine life with anyone else. But I really do not know.

I think if she is then it is sad. You should care enough about the other person's happiness to let them go, so they can be happy.

Also, If a guy has doubts and the girl does this, the communication was never there to begini with. JMO

Apr 16, 2009

RE: Older women, younger men

I agree. Other thoughts?

Apr 16, 2009

RE: Older women, younger men

I posted this on a similar thread and thought it would be an appropriate add in here:

sweetowen:

And why is the Societal Conditioning different for men & women?? Why is it so acceptable for older men to be with younger women??

In the past, women really did not live very long. Many died due to childbirth or illness. Sadly, many children during those times never lived bast early child hood either. So, there were many men whom might have had ~3 to 7 or more wives by the time they died. So, young women were always, marriageable b/c younger women had a better chance of surviving childbirth and the guy had a decent chance of having a wife to live his lifetime with.

Also, if a woman had not found a husband before she was 25 she was considered a spinster and an old maid,(think shunned by society where men were concerned). If she found somebody after she was a Spinster, there was much gossip and ostracizing of the couple.

So it became Taboo for an older woman to expect any mate let alone a younger mate.

In more recent times, Immunizations, Specialty Doctors/Medicine, longer life expectancy; ( Ironically women now outlive men), changing society, and other factors are reversing the mindsets that created that Taboo.

There is also the fact that there are many more females in the world than males. So many of us are expanding our options to include younger men.

There are other cultures whose young men are having to look outside of their culture, due to centuries of female genocide. So these guys have not enough women to chose from in their countries.

I realize this is all EXTREMELY simplified, here in my explanation. However, you can read about much of it in Anthropology, and Sociology books as well as some history.

cute older women with younger guys???: click here to read the entire thread »

All our new members what do you think?

Apr 16, 2009

RE: If you could date atleast one foreigner from what culture and why...?

With the accents thread of the last few days, this seemed like a good thread to revisit and get the in put from our new comers. So all, what do you think?

Apr 16, 2009

RE: Knocked up?

Like Lusci said OOPS!!!!

Apr 16, 2009

RE: People with disabilities should be seen and heard ...by children?

Apr 16, 2009

RE: People with disabilities should be seen and heard ...by children?

Apr 16, 2009

RE: How did you come up with your username?

Jeepers is good. I don't know what Budders is, though.

Apr 16, 2009

RE: How did you come up with your username?

You are welcome. Thanks for a wonderful thread!!!!

Apr 16, 2009

RE: How did you come up with your username?

Cool!!!! Yay!!!!!

Apr 16, 2009

RE: How did you come up with your username?

Yep!!!!

Apr 16, 2009

RE: Should a person compromise who they are to be with the one they love?

Very true.

Apr 16, 2009

RE: ANY NATIVE AMERICANS ON CS?

Apr 16, 2009

RE: What do women want?

:giggle:

Conrad, go back to northernstar's thread Sommer put him in his place.

Apr 16, 2009

RE: What do women want?

Well said!

Apr 16, 2009

RE: Outsourcing US jobs Overseas.....

Apr 16, 2009

RE: Outsourcing US jobs Overseas.....

Thing I never understood, is what happened to all the money they owed to us? Who forgave that Debt and When? Or if they paid it back When did they and why did we not hear that The Debt had been paid.

How did we go from being owed to owing w/o the Debt from China being applied to our debt?

Apr 15, 2009

RE: What color would you pick right now to fit your mood?

My Favs Emerald Green then Silver then Purple. All make me feel wonderful.

Apr 15, 2009

RE: LADIES ONLY PLS: curly question time! who would you choose?

Erm, You really don't want to know.

Apr 15, 2009

RE: How Much do men have to take in a life time

Well said.

My Late Ex and I had no children, we miscarried. I was like you in our divorce, I did not want anything.
If we had had chilren, John would have had open visitation.

I would never have kept what would have been the best part of both of us from him.

If I should marry again, and we have children, either Biological or Adoptive and we part, I would still feel the same way, today.

Apr 15, 2009

RE: LADIES ONLY PLS: curly question time! who would you choose?

Um, Nope.

Apr 15, 2009

RE: LADIES ONLY PLS: curly question time! who would you choose?

I always wondered about this, myself.

Apr 15, 2009

RE: LADIES ONLY PLS: curly question time! who would you choose?

At Last! A likeminded, sister!

Apr 15, 2009

RE: Past relationships

True.

Apr 15, 2009

RE: Say 'I LOVE YOU' in your native language

Anee ohev otakh (m to f), Anee ohevet otkha (f to m), Anee ohev otkha (m to m), Anee ohevet otakh (f to f)Hebrew, language of my Ancestors or Ascendants or forbearers. Too many people have been using descendants here, this is not correct. That means your children or more generations.

Apr 14, 2009

RE: "I love the way you...

I Love all the wonderful posts on this thread from the best Group of people I have been Blessed to join!!!!!

Thank-you, All of You, for the hope you instill, that I will experience these things again!

Thank -you OP for a wonderful Thread.

Apr 14, 2009

RE: WHAT WOMEN WANT

Apr 14, 2009

RE: WHAT WOMEN WANT

I am too, but I have State Exams. Then I will have another State Exam then the Ones for New York state too.. . .Then Return to School F/T in August. . .

Ulp! So Daaaammmm Much Studying!!!!.

Apr 14, 2009

RE: Do pics make a difference????

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