Didn't your children come from that relationship? So if you would forgive your children for no matter what they do then why wouldn't you do the very same for your partner.We're all human and tend to slip up from time to time.You may not forget but I would think it would be the right thing to do but forgiveness.It doesn't get the other person off the hook so to speak but it does release someone from remaining a prisioner.
I don't wish to turn this into a religious thread but.... I've been told so many times throughout my life that God loves someone no matter what or how much they've sinned so I guess what you just said would be make sense.
It's when you're so very much in love with that particular person so that it doesn't matter what happens during your relationship with them that you'll always love them.
In one word NO.I mean you just don't stop loving someone or at least I didn't just because he would've made a mistake.He had plenty of flaws just like I do and we didn't expect one another to be perfect.We accepted one another for who and what we were.We didn't keep score.
I'm sure it doesn't/probably wouldn't work in every relationship but yes it's Possible cause it worked between my late husband and myself.We didn't criticize,pass blame,never judged one another ,never tried to control each other.Maybe that's why our marriage lasted as long as it did up until he passed away.
Anything is possible in a relationship when two people really and truly want something to happen.That would involve no criticism,no blaming each other,no judgements no controling from either side.
A shih-tuz I had used to lay beside my recliner when he passed gas would make little whistling sounds out of his behind.He'd have this look on his face as if he was saying "Payback time to my master.
RE: Wild
I doubt if you could get very close to one.