somechick Forum Posts (11,116)

RE: What is Love

Love is sharing the everyday goods and bads and all the in between times with the one in your life.


It's not about blame,judging or criticism.

Actually love just is.

RE: What do you miss the most?

I miss having someone around to hold me when I'm hurting and tell me things are going to be ok.

I miss someone to share the good,bad and inbetween times with.

RE: are you looking forward to christmas?

Even tho I'm not pleased about all the commericalization of the holidays Christmas will always be my favorite holiday.

It always brings good cheer to me.I love decorating,cooking and the baking that goes along with it.

RE: do you ever feel lonely at night

Sometimes I do.

RE: He or she is 20 minutes late...what would you do? (First Date)

I'd probably try to call them to see what happened.


Maybe they got cold feet at the last minute.

RE: hunting

Are you referring to the two legged or the 4 legged kind of hunting? That can be a sport as well.

RE: you buy someone an expensive xmas gift,they give you a cheap one in return.......

The price of gift that someone gives to me is not the most important thing to me.It's all about the love behind that gift that should count the most.

I had someone give me a gift once which I could tell was purchsed from a dollar store but I didn't let on I knew.

I once recieved some wildflowers given to me from someone who was once my boyfriend at the time which he picked out in the woods. Maybe to some people they wouldn't had been like recieving a dozen roses but to me they meant the world.

RE: what is your definition of love

being accpeted unconditionaly for who you are,for your flaws,faults,fears.
Love is support and nuturing.By not critcizing or blame.

Love just is.

RE: i need advise badly

Maybe she has a trust issue.Give her some time just be patinet and understanding and when she feels comfortable to talk about things be a very good listener.

RE: What makes you take the plunge?

He'd have to be a very special man for I'd ever consider taking the plunge again.

RE: Say something, anything that is on your mind-2

I was referring to singling someone out over the others who have a right to be recongnized as well.Don't like making lists.

RE: Say something, anything that is on your mind-2

It's funny on how every now and then someones egos have to be stroked.

RE: Recent Date

I suppose some of us women say something like that cause we're just blowing men off. Or could also be causethey're not into you in a relationship way.

RE: Would you rather have an alcoholic partner or a Pot Head?

I'd rather be around someone who is stoned on life.

RE: do you ever realy forget your love? honesty plz

I doubt if you ever do.I know I didn't and his memories will always be with me.

RE: When life gives you lemons...

I just make lemon juice.What else is there?

RE: DO YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT ?

Well this woman does lust after something.

I'm lusting for my morning cup of tea and a big donut.

RE: WHY??

Never flown in a plane so I guess I wouldn't know.


I'd like to know why Children are required to be in a seat belt while riding in a vehicle but not on a school bus.This makes no sense.

RE: DO YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT ?

Lust at first site.

RE: new here looking for that special girl

Why are all the cute guys young enough to be my sone or old enough to be my dad.I can't win.

RE: Do You Really Want To Know?

If I truly want to know how someone is I will ask how they are.

RE: DO YOU THINK WOMEN SHOULD GET PAID AS MUCH AS MEN FOR THE SAME WORK ?

If she's working less hours than a man No she shouldn't.
If she's doing the very same work as a man Yes she should.

I wonder how many wives would feel knowing that a woman in her husband's office is getting the very same pay as he is for doing less hours.

RE: Should crimminals be put in the military?

I don't think criminals should serve in the military. How do we know that some criminals aren't already serving.

RE: Does Your Perfect Soulmate Actually Exist?

In regards to Chemistry that means I'll have to buy myself a Chemistry set to see if I can develop my soulmate.


I've often wondered what exactly is a perfect soulmate.

RE: ARE YOU AFRAID OF DYING ?

No and there are things I just want to accomplish in my life before it ends.All I can do is just enjoy each day as if it's my day.Besides nothing last forever and I must accept that.If I worry to much about dying it's makes me depressed.I find it's better not to worry about things I can't control.If I let fear control my life I wouldn't be able to enjoy it.

RE: what is the best thing that has happend to you in your life.

The day I got my bachelors degree.

RE: men & past relationships

Probably for the very same reason us women do.I fully understand putting your children first and foremost but not the exes.That's why they're considered exes.

RE: is it true that all men want a big woman but wont admit to it.....?

I don't think most men want a heavy woman.Usually they want someone who looks model like.

RE: Another Way To Protect Yourself

Never thought of using wasp spray but I'll stick to my 9mm.

RE: What type of exercise???

On days when my knees not bothering me I like to jogging through the woods.I also enjoy swimming and hiking as well.