I still see nothing wrong with it.My former mother-in-law and her ex are friends even though her ex is remarried.They still hug and kiss one another and she's had dinner with her ex and the new wife.It's all about trust.
Getting hugs & kisses.Random acts of kindness.Snail mail from my family & friends.Connecting with awesome people whether it be on/offline.Feeling of accomplishment of getting something done.
RE: WHY do men over 50 become INVISABLE ?
You didn't show them pics of your tighty whities did you? j/k