He's 20yrs old.As for his intentions I was told yesterday when I contacted Fort Bliss in El Paso Tx I was told that because of 911 that certain things are keep private and that I fully understand.
After loosing all phone/email contact with my oldest son for quite sometime I took it upon myself to contact anyone who knew him and what may have happened to him. Well today my long long search for him has ended. I was able to find out that he had decided to join the United States Army.He was also deployed to Iraq.I'm so very happy in regards to finding out just why I'd lost all contact with him but at the very same time I'm relieved that I located him.I'm totally scared to death too.
If I'm lonely there's a chance that's I've most likely have played a part in being lonely or alone.I've been told that it's the choices that I've probably made throughtout my life is some of the reason that I'm alone right now. I really don't know.
Thank you.I don't think it helps a rlationship one little bit to keep score.I agree with you that why don't we just talk to each other.It was always my belief and I'm sure someone may disagree with me on this..but I only can get out of a relationship what i invest into it.
I've been told that a relationship is 50/50 I don't feel that way.My opinion is that a relationship takes 100% from both parties to make it work.Without a lot of communication from both people that particular relatiosnhip is doomed.
I was guilty of residing in the past but then I learned that I can no longer do that.I also realized that noone is responsible for making me happy that I have to do the work myself.
I've often asked myself the question of why I bother even staying on the forums.
I have no problem taking the risk again I just haven't found anyone I'm really and truly interested in.
I live to the very best of my ability.Laugh by finding the humor in people and things in general.Love like the dickend.Like you say life IS waaaaay to short.I don't get to overly concerned about things I have no trouble over anyway.
somechick Forum Posts (11,116)
My Oldest Son
Yup that's true.