You have sorted it out in your own mind really and I hope you have come to the conclusion that this guy is not for you. Personally I would not have any further contact with him, other than to say maybe he is not what you need in your life. He sounds very pushy and controlling and will only get worse as time or a relationship progresses.
RE: ok ladies need some help
I looked, Soulmate has covered it all.Hope your luck gets better
A month is not very long in the greater scheme of things.