zedbra Forum Posts (393)

RE: smokers bar--------------come in drink and smoke lol

My God, think I'd best stay away from this thread. I'm shocked at some of what I've read!

RE: How to say "Sorry" ?

Hey take it easy! LOL. They're a team at last now that weird Sven idiot has gone. What happened to Becks though? Anyway, kinda going off the subject. :)

RE: uk forums

I know what you mean Deborah. I've often had that same problem in forums with American people in.

RE: How to say "Sorry" ?

I'm glad you're seeing things a little differently now. Guys like that just aren't worth your time stressing over.

A woman who likes footy? Hehe. I must be the only guy who doesn't like it! Well not unless England are playing of course.

RE: How to say "Sorry" ?

As others also said, I think it's him who is in the wrong for lying. I've had lots of experience with people who lie too, and I can't cope with anyone not being honest. Maybe if he apologises about lying then you could apologise for over-reacting if you think you did? Just a thought. I hope you work it out anyway. :)

Geoff.

RE: pets

I don't have any pets but my Sister recently got a bunny rabbit (awww!) and a guinea pig, as she was told they'd mix well with each other. They didn't though so she seperated them, and got another guinea piggie to keep the other one company (bunnies apparently are ok on their own). However, the 2 guinea pigs didn't get on either so she had to seperate them, then get 2 more to keep each of the others company. Then, even though the male of the male/famale pair had been nuted, the female had 3 babbies! So she's gone from having 1 to having 7 of them!

RE: women only.....no men allowed to look

I've been putting off looking since I saw this thread hours ago - But I just couldn't help myself! At least I held off for a while.

RE: Friends hang out

Thanks for the hug and what you wrote, it's very sweet of you. I don't know if it was her nerves or not? She did at least apologise for blowing hot and cold on me, which was something. It somehow doesn't make me feel much better though. I just barely ever find anyone who wants to meet me so for someone to agree to and then let me down, it doesn't feel too good - Especially when they give such a crazy reason, it's really quite an insult as she's got me all wrong.

Thanks for being so nice to me. :)

RE: Friends hang out

Hi Brian and thank you for your support. I think you're right that women generally think guys are monsters, and like you, I sometimes can't say I blame them as there are so many bad ones around. I'm just kinda frustrated right now because I don't take things lightly and it meant a lot that someone actually wanted to meet me, and I had to arrange something else around it.

It's nice to know I have some friends here. :)
Cheers Brian.

RE: Funny Lot

I think most people will be friendly at first - But if you step on someone's toes, you'll turn them all against you. I've found that in other forums, even one with just Brits in.

RE: to cam or not to cam- that is the question-

I'm very nervous about webcam chats as I feel so self-consious about it. To answer the OP though, it is definately a good idea to have a cam chat, especially if you're planning to meet someone.

RE: Friends hang out

Hi Brian. Thanks mate, I will let you all know how it goes. She's being very flirty, which is nice of course but so much so I'm a bit scared! Teeheehee. I guess I'm just not too used to it.

Geoff.

RE: Friends hang out

Mind if I butt in? How is everyone doing? It's a bit of a wet day today - But that's ok, it saves watering the garden.

I wonder if we can get more people to these forums? I like the people I've come across but there aren't very many, compared to the number of people with profiles.

I've arranged to meet a new friend tomorrow evening and I'm scared stiff!

Have a good day everyone,
Geoff.

RE: where have all the chippies gone

I still see several proper chippies down where I live on the south coast.

Lack of contacts - Free and Pay sites

Hi YamiYami. By the way I'm only doing seperate replies to everyone so that I don't miss bits out. :)

I have written to people, I don't just wait for them to come to me. It would be nice if they did though! As for starting with people close to me - I try but on this site inparticular that's tough when there seems no way to view only close people. The choice is either England or another country! I guess I can't complain, seeing as it's free. :) I have written to people all over the world in the past though, in desperation to get SOMEone to write back.

I've been told many times that I should talk up my good points and not be negative, and my profile here does that I think? I've certainly worked hard trying to make it read well and be positive, but still be honest.

Cheers,
Geoff.

Lack of contacts - Free and Pay sites

Hi Ickle. I am getting the feeling more and more that big isn't bad, which is good. Like I just wrote in my last post though, I have issues that are caused because of my bigness, and they put people off. I'd rather not broadcast the details here for everyone to read though. Anyway, it is still a fact that I do get much more interest on sites for bigger people, for whatever reason it may be.

Wow what is it with those women causing you so much trouble! I was surprised when I read it was women rather than men! I wonder how genuine many people on dating sites are when they act like that.

The sites for big people don't offer free membership for women by the way - At least not the ones I know of. I have seen some other sites that do though.

Take care,
Geoff.

Lack of contacts - Free and Pay sites

Thanks for that mate. No I'm not offended that you're not interested, don't worry. I do agree with you about being big not mattering so much these days. There are details about my life though that are different BECAUSE I am big, and those are the things that put people off rather than the bigness itself. You're probably right that people don't do any searching for free sites. I don't intentionally but I've come across quite a few in general searching.

Cheers,
Geoff.

Lack of contacts - Free and Pay sites

I wonder why it is that I've barely had any contacts at all from this site? I'm a member of several free sites, and I get almost zero contacts on all of them. However, on the pay sites, I DO get contacts! Not many - Not many at all, but at least a few winks or letters now and then.

I wonder if it's to do with the fact that I'm a big guy, and the pay sites I belong to are just for big people? I guess that could be it. I've written to many big people on here though and they never respond to me. In fact barely anyone is showing up as even looking at my profile for some reason??? So I guess that's what the problem really is. I don't know how to change that though.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not having a moan about nobody being interested in me (even if it's true!) so there's no need to tell me I'll find someone someday etc.. This is just about a lack of contacts on free sites compared to pay ones.

Why doesn't everyone leave the pay sites and join the free ones anyway? I think people like throwing money away sometimes. Also, why don't people who are a member of pay AND free sites, use the same ID (like I do) on each? That way, when people see them on a pay site and want to write without subscribing, they could easily find them on free sites.

Ok enough from me. I feel like I could write forever! LOL.
Geoff.

RE: Joke of the Day

A horse walks into a bar. Barman says, "Why the long face?".



Ok ok ok, I did my best. I'm better at laughing at jokes than telling them. That's if I get them, which I often don't!

RE: so what are we all on hear for

Criky! Tell someone she's beautiful and make a polite decent helpful suggestion, and she just has a moan and rolls her eyes! Unbelievable.

Tony Blair

What is all this nonsense at the moment about Tony Blair being asked to resign? Why is everyone so worked up about it? Why would various aids resign in protest? I'm not into politics so maybe I'm missing something.

Also, why is it the leading story all over the news? It's all over the news, and GMTV are having a 'special programme' today where part of it is coming from outside number 10! Do people really care that much? I personally like Tony Blair and don't want him to leave but I still couldn't really care less if he announces when he's leaving or not. It's his business, not mine.

Geoff.

RE: X-Factor

I enjoy it too. The auditions are funny but I also like the main show when they sing on stage. It's not that I like the show that much, but in my lonely world, any show like that makes me feel more connected to other people. It's the same with Big Brother or the World Cup. I'm mainly interested because the majority of the population are, so I feel like I belong more and like I have some company when watching them. I'm not sure if I can explain it any better than that so if that makes no sense, please feel free to ignore me!

Geoff.

RE: 911

It's hard to understand you because you don't punctuate, but I've come to the conclusion that it's pointless discussing this further. Believe what you want to believe. It's just a shame so many people are like this as in a way it's disrespectful to the people who died.

That's the end of this topic as far as I'm concerned.

RE: 911

Whenever there is a conspiracey, it's very easy to be taken in. I'm very interested in anything to do with space so when I heard the conspiracey theory saying that we didn't land on the moon, I researched it. Well the people coming up with the nonsense gave a load of very convincing details that, anyone who isn't clued up on such things, would totally fall for. However, once you look into it properly you can explain or disprove every single thing those people said. I know that 9/11 is nothing to do with the moon landing but I don't know enough detail about what you've written about to argue the point very well. Come on mate, do you really think that a load of people in the American government are going to kill thousands of innocent people just for oil? How could they sleep at night knowing they've done that? Maybe one person could be a sicko but not everyone who would need to be in on it would want to be involved. Are you even aware that there is plenty of oil in the USA and in British waters? One person yells 'conspiracey' and 'oil' and half the world go crazy and believe it. I personally prefer to think for myself and use a bit of logic in coming to my own conclusions.

You said it's convenient that the White House wasn't hit - But if it had been and the Pentegon hadn't been, would you have said that was convenient? As for whether a plane did hit the Pentegon or not - Why do you think it didn't? I've seen a documentary about that and due to the speed of the impact there wouldn't be much evidence left behind. How do you know that no black box was found? Do you work for the US Government? Wouldn't the black box have been destroyed anyway? Unanswered questions from the FBI - So what? They aren't going to answer every question, it isn't sensible for them to do so.

If I tried hard enough I could come up with just as many 'convincing' stories that 'prove' it wasn't a conspiracey. In fact I'm sure there are already many bits of evidence that prove it, but of course people like a conspiracey so they tend to ignore those things. It's like the moon landings - There is evidence that prove it all, but of course the conspiracey theorists ignore that and refuse to comment.

RE: future

I've been known to start a similar thread twice myself. After posting my introduction post yesterday, I saw that I had actually already done that in July! It was before this site had a UK version though so maybe that doesn't count. :)

Anyway - In the future, I'd like to be content, happy and feel like I have something to live for. Nothing else will matter as long as I have those things.

Geoff.

RE: so what are we all on hear for

I often question what I'm here to find. I'd like new friends but also a relationship, although I have to say that I'm a little scared of getting into anything deep, thanks to what's been done to me in the past. I know I should leave it in the past and all that but it's easier to say than do. So I'm just not sure, so will play it by ear with anyone brave enough to meet me.

RE: Trigger Happy TV

I know it's old now but I always like the "HELLO" into a massive mobile phone the best. The best one was on a small packed boat on a river, when he stood up and yelled "HELLO" and the driver almost jumped out of the boat. Oh and when he does it at places like museums where he implies that the person on the other end asks what it's like, because he says, "It's crap". Teeheehee.

RE: 911

The 'truth'? The truth is that some terrorists took over some planes and intentionally crashed them. No the Government did not know before-hand or it wouldn't have happened. No, Bush didn't intentionally plan it all. He's an idiot but isn't evil.

People will always try to find conspiraces in everything, and if they look hard enough, they'll be able to put 'facts' together to make almost anything appear true.

Geoff.

RE: MARMITE

Whoops - Sorry about the smilly.

RE: MARMITE

For some reason I love Yeast Extract, but don't like Marmite. They are almost the same thing though. I love Marmite flavoured things though such a Marmite crisps! Yummy. javascript:emot('');
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