Some times i think i could be guilty of being bland on here. Sometimes i see a thread which interests me go to join see the personal digs and decide not to post.
I didn't pick an option Rob as i will argue only if its necessary to get my point of view a cross. Also i do try an listen the other person opinion though if i am honest i want my voice heard. However after sometimes hearing another's opinion i have changed of moderated my opinion.
I will stop debating/arguing if we seem to be going round in circles and no new point of view are being put forward. Also if it gets to heated and the other person is not listening to anyone.
I once was an employee representative and had to speak on others behalf on some points of view i didn't agree with. So i think i quite balanced in a debate.
I think i am turning into my father i see actors/actresses on the box. Then i fly in to tirade muttering to me self. I thought i would turn into my sweet mother,but no i'm my fathers daughter a bit like Victor Meldrew saying things like "i don't bloody beleive it.:roll":
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i wish i was a taker gime gime
RE: Do you enjoy a good arguement?
Some times i think i could be guilty of being bland on here. Sometimes i see a thread which interests me go to join see the personal digs and decide not to post.