There's a difference between being LONELY and on one's own.... I enjoy my alone/on my own time... I can regroup... read... enjoy the solitude....
There have been times in my life where I was sad... grieving a loss of a loved one where I was lonely.... even in a crowded room... and that was because I felt that no one else could understand my grief....
I don't often feel that way anymore, but when I do, I know that it's usually because I'm hurting on a deep level, and that in the end, it will pass.... On its own...
I am romantic, and I am NEVER odinatry.... or materialistic... BLOUNT? do you mean BLUNT? If so, I can be blunt.. I speak my mind.. but tactfully... I don't want to be around someone who is vain, jealous, materialistic, obsessive or a jerk....thanks very much....
I'm kind, thoughtful, fair, will compromise, independent, can be stubborn and sometimes impatient.... I like order and organization, but am not obsessive about it... I'm curious, vulnerable at times, loving, affectionate, sometimes cranky when I'm tired.... I'm a lot of things.... as we all are...
I am curious as to why those are the only traits you chose to put....
OHhhhhhh Gawd bless my grandma.... I remember the "OLD RATTLESNAKE" story she always told me...
I had broken up with someone I'd been with for a long time when I was in my early 30s and thought I wanted him back..... I cried and cried, and thought I'd made a mistake in ending our long-term relationship.... She sat me down and said,
"I'm going to tell you a story.... It's a story about a rattle snake.... A young gal got this rattlesnake in her early 20s and cared for it, and fed it.. cleaned its cage... daily for almost 10 years... the snake tried to bite her daily.... constantly flared it's temper at her... and almost poisoned her many times... however.. faithfully, she tended to the care of the snake... One day, the rattlesnake died...... The girl was devastated... She cried and cried.. and grieved for a long time..... She swore she'd do anything to have the snake back WHY? Because she had cared for this snake for so long... and it was part of her life... regardless of how the snake treated her... she was used to that......"
I sat there and thought for a moment... and then realized... she was trying to tell me... It was not LOVE I was missing.. it was the FAMILIARITY.... Being with SOMEONE.. ANYONE... was better than being alone..... Until I learned that I could be happy on my own.... I would not be able to be truly happy with someone else...
I've never forgotten that story....I miss grandma!!!!!
I am just curious... do any women really sign up to catch themselves a 'Sugar daddy'???? Do these guys really believe that the women will care about them for who they are? Or are these men just lookin' for a trophy on their arm and don't care if she's a golddigger??
I could not see myself contacting one of these men or checking out the site...
What do others think???
Are there 'Date a Millionairess' SITES? What do the guys think of all this?
Hey, I've seen people on here.. in looking thru profiles with 3 and 4 profiles... same picture... 3-4 different profiles....
There are 'professional' date-siters I think... Every date site you go to to try out... there they are with their picture and profile up.... I've tried various date sites, but if I've found they aren't to my liking, I remove my profile... delete my picture/information... send the unsubscribe note, etc etc... then I go and MAKE SURE my profile is deleted.....
So, I cannot see why someone would have more than one profile... makes the person look like slimshady to me... seee......
LOOKS Only last so long... Your MUM was RIGHT~~~~~~~
So was mine.. I never listened to her most of my life... I've started in recent years... and a lot of the things she told me... I've come to find out are TRUE... DUhhhhhhhhhhhhh
The biggest thing she always told me was the LOVE NEVER HURTS.... Don't sleep with someone until you find out if you LIKE them first... If you do not respect yourself.... he won't respect you either... i.e., if you let him walk all over you... he'll walk all over you because he has no respect for you....And the big one....... you can tell alot by a man on how he treats you in public... if he's not taking you out in public.... your relationship is meant to be a 'secret'........
Makes sense in a non-sensical kinda sorta way.... True though....
Faithful: 1. strict or thorough in the performance of duty: a faithful worker. 2. true to one's word, promises, vows, etc. 3. steady in allegiance or affection; loyal; constant: faithful friends. 4. reliable, trusted, or believed. 5. adhering or true to fact, a standard, or an original; accurate: a faithful account; a faithful copy. 6. Obsolete. full of faith; believing.
UNFAITHFUL would be the exact opposite of that... causing me to lose FAITH in the person... or that person's actions... which causes lack of trust... which disrupts the relationship...
Sanks..... I have good days and bad ones... don't we all.. I am not a candidate for surgery either as the bone spurs in my neck don't press on the nerve root.... If the nerve root is not compromised... they will not operate... and shave them down... Then again.. I don't think I'd want to have surgery anyway...
Oh... and if you can find an Osteopathist ... GO!!!! (It's a new practice.. falls under Physio...) A lot of physios are now studying osteopathy.. it's a way of detecting and treating damaged parts of the body such as muscles, ligaments, nerves and joints. When the body is balanced and efficient, just like a well tuned engine, it will function with the minimum of wear and tear, leaving more energy for living. · Treatment involves gentle, manual techniques - easing pain, reducing swelling and improving mobility. · Osteopathy does not involve the use of drugs or surgery.
It is NOT the same as chiropractors.... Osteopaths do not use swift, harsh movement of joints and muscles... It's painless and I always feel better and relaxed after a 1/2 hour session.
The name osteopathy comes from the Greek osteon (bone) and pathos (to suffer), so it literally means suffering of the bone. The name has created some confusion, leading people to think that an osteopath treats only conditions of the bones. However, Dr. Still (the Physician who started it) chose the name because he recognized the importance of a properly functioning musculoskeletal system for the total well-being of the individual.
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and can admit my mistakes... 
RE: How Do You Pick Your Thread
sometimes.. it is nice to have something funny and funnnnnn to laugh about.... TWATsn't that the whole idea??? to make folks laugh...