I am FRIENDLY with all my exes.. But.. NOT GOOD FRIENDS!!! And, that was only after a period of a year or more. If I see my ex hubby... who is remarried... we say hey.. how are ya.... When his dad died, I called him and gave my condolences.... I know his wife.. she's a nice gal... and we say HI, how are ya.... no problem.... Do we visit each other's homes... noooooo. Any of my ex boyfriends and I get along just fine, but do we hang out together? NOooooooooooooooooooooooo.
Now, my best friend's parents have been divorced for YEARS... Her dad remarried and had another family..... Her MUM and DAD get along better now than when they were married.... At Christmas and other holidays... if her dad and step mom are visiting.. her mom visits too and they all share a meal, and get along fine.... It did not happen, however, immediately after her parents split up, though.... It was YEARS before they were able to be in the same room together without arguing..... They're older and maturer now....
I hate to admit this... but I will..... I believe in the fact that everything happens for a reason... and I also believe in Serendipity... (an accidental discovery)... like... the guy who invented penicillin.. was actually researching something else, and low and behold.......
However, I really do not understand what this 'matrix reloaded' stuff is all about...... and some of the 'philisophical' stuff is really just plain beyond my scope of understanding....
A lot of people would not admit that.. but hey... I'm not above admitting I don't understand something...
I think there are people also who are hooked on the CHASE of a relationship.. Once they get their 'prey'... they get bored.... They're addicted to the newness of a relationship...
Also, some people just don't think NO means NO.. or that when you say.. for example that you want a guy who is between the ages of 40-53 that it does not apply to them... I've had this happen... A 60 year old man emailed me 3-4 times.... Thought we had SO much in common... First of all, we had nothing in common... and second.. he was not within the age range I am looking for... I mean.. if he was 54 or maybe 39.. that's one thing.. but the man is clearly a good 12 years older than me. I had to block him... because I could not believe someone could be such a BLOCK head!!!
Where have all the long hairs gone? Long time passing Where have all the long hairs gone? Long time ago Where have all the long hairs gone? Girls have picked them every one When will they ever learn? When will they ever learn?
Where have all the young girls gone? Long time passing Where have all the young girls gone? Long time ago Where have all the young girls gone? Taken long hairs… every one When will they ever learn? When will they ever learn?
Where have all the young men gone? Long time passing Where have all the young men gone? Long time ago Where have all the young men gone? Gone for soldiers every one When will they ever learn? When will they ever learn?
Well did it ever occur to you others are working on closing that gap... A tad bitter are we not???? And who are you to tell others what they should or should not be doing or what their relationships are about...???
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RE: who hates his/her life
Hate is a very strong word....If you hate your life.... only you can change that...