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I need a date!

Goodan....the ex paid for the car, do you think he would pay for a cruise?

I need a date!

54 and don't know how to start dating. Need some advice. Guys? Gals? Help!

RE: If anyone could help..

Sorry, Marcy.......down south, we don't make stuffing. We always have cornbread dressing. And, we don't put it inside the bird. Wish I could help. Why not do a search on google?

RE: the old fashioned date

Foxy, you might want to read the VERY LONG thread that Big Daddy started - WOMEN! Do they just not get it? It will give you some insight into why HE feels the men on this site are here. Hopefully, he is wrong. Not that HE would ever admit it.

Skinny, Curvy, Proportional.....What does it mean?

LOL, Starlite! Yeah, the world might be a better place if we women looked @ ourselves as being under height instead of overweight! Love it!

Skinny, Curvy, Proportional.....What does it mean?

OK. I have Big Daddy typing syndrome. I meant to add an "N" on the end of me! LOL

Skinny, Curvy, Proportional.....What does it mean?

Thanks, Outdoorman! I have spent most of my life trying to hide these curves. Big shirts, baggy pants. I have finally decided my curves are actually appreciated by some me. It is good to know that not all of you are looking for that runway model!

Skinny, Curvy, Proportional.....What does it mean?

Guys, let's have your take on what you use in your search criteria. Are all of you looking for that skinny model type? What about curves? Big & Beautiful? This is a whole new take on "Does Size Matter?". Let's hear what you have to say. (Especially you guys who are over 40.)

RE: worst song to put on when ur about to make love

Girls Lie, Too - Terri Clark

(Especially the line - Size don't matter anyway!

Southern Belles

Yes, Simmybabez. Dolly has a Southern accent.

Southern Belles

Men, what are your impressions of a Southern Belle? Backwoods? Undereducated? Alluring? Love that accent? Hit me with it!

RE: Are females selfish by nature?

Oh yeah, I just realized why you have never been married!

RE: Trust: Earned or Gained...

Steben, That's a tough question. I would imagine that the vast majority of people on this site over the age of 40 have been in a relationship that lasted for more than a couple of hours. Having said that, they are out of that relationship (or many) because of something that probably had to do with trust.

By nature, I am a trusting person. I believe the glass if half full. I like to think most people would return your lost wallet with the money still in it.

During my divorce, I was told by many of my good friends that I was foolish to believe/trust my ex. They never convinced me that I shouldn't believe/trust him. I have had some doubts about my sanity regarding that topic, but I truly think it is better to trust from the beginning.

Maybe it is the power of positive thinking. Or, the belief that you get from people what you expect. But, until proven wrong, I vote to trust from the beginning. The only thing someone should have to earn is a paycheck!

RE: Are females selfish by nature?

Thanks! I haven't been to this site in a while. Just realized what the forums were. Been having fun reading them. Decided to do a little verbal sparring.

RE: Are females selfish by nature?

Oh you are soooooooooo wrong, he who flies high!

I can't speak for ALL women, but for those of us Girls Raised In The South, selfishness is not a part of our vocabulary. Do we get what we want? Sure, Sugah! But, we tend to make the guy think it is his idea.

Since I have always lived in the South, I can only tell you how most of the women from my generation were raised. We were raised to believe that:

1. The man is the head of the household.
2. The woman does what she is told.
3. The woman raises the children.
4. The woman cleans the house.
5. The woman Never raises her voice.
6. The woman gets the beer (and opens it).
7. The woman never gets a headache.
8. The woman has dinner on the table when HE gets home.

YEAH, RIGHT!!!!

We are not selfish, but we do believe that a relationship is more than 50/50. It takes 100% from each person to make it work.

So, what am I making for dinner? Reservations, Dahlin"!

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