So, you meet this person (on another site). You start talking on the phone and the conversation is very enjoyable. The person is local. You have a few dates. You have a lot in common. The conversation is good. No sparks fly, but you have both been out of a relationship for a while. Is it ok to fulfill each other's physical needs on a purely friendship basis?
I have been getting on with my life. Stopped searching so hard for a replacement to fix my broken heart. I have healed. And, yes, I am still in Alabama, for now. Thanks for asking!
Oh yeah! I have put a halt to my thread killing. Don't want to take away someone else's job! LOL!
YEAH!!!!!!!! I finally found a thread with familiar people! I haven't been on here in quite a while. I like the new pics, everyone! Nene! So glad to see you again. Roy, you are looking good.
Communication is paramount. I will never be in another relationship with a "quiet" man. It drives you crazy wondering what is going on in his head. Or, you drive him crazy constantly asking, "What are you thinking?". Problems? Talk them out. Speak up when your feelings are hurt. Tell him what you want, don't make him guess. And, don't ask a question if you are going to be offended by the answer.
I have learned that trust is not something that has to be earned. Regretfully, we all misplace trust at one time or another. And, it hurts when we learn we trusted someone who wasn't worthy of that trust. But, don't let one betrayal jade your thinking.
Take bitty steps in trust. Don't test someone just to see if you can trust them. Assume you can, until shown otherwise. (But, this whole paragraph goes out the window if you are talking about handing a stranger a bag full of money or your grandmother's engagement ring!)
I worry too much about what the other person is going to think of me. That gets in the way of my being myself. I need to like myself and not worry if anyone else does.
A little girl comes home from school one day and tells her Mommie, "I know where babies come from."
Curious to learn what her daughter has discovered, the Mommie asks the little girl to tell her what she knows.
"Well, first...the Mommie and the Daddy take off all of there clothes." The little girl says with lots of drama. "Then, the Daddy's thingy stands up and the Mommie puts her mouth on it." The little girl looks @ her Mommie with big, wide eyes anxious to see how Mommie was going to react. When Mommie just nodded, the little girl said, "And then.......there is a big explosion!" "And, that's where babies come from."
Barely able to contain her laughter, the Mommie takes the little girl in her arms and says, "No, darling. That is not where babies come from. That is where Jewelry comes from."
An order of Hot and Sour Soup with some fried wontons would be great. (But, I don't know what all that stuff is floating around in the soup. Maybe chicken balls? Who knew?)
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RE: what is the best food you can prepare???
Take out.