not that they are better than anyone else but i know off the top of my head of 5 published writers that were here while finishing a work and some remain here after
are you ashamed of being part of a website? thats what it sounds like? that only a certain level of people would be here? a bit offensive -
it takes all types and because there are all types here is what makes it a great place
the forum has hosted all types- ship captains, housewives, captains of industry, doctors, nurses bankers, lawyers-- gee whiz so many types- its wonderful and i wouldnt want anyone to feel they dont belong here because of a certain station in life or accomplishment or perceived lack of .
CS is for all so the exclusionary behavior isnt okay-
no professional writer was doing anything but defending simple right and wrong as felt personally important to them- so what?
your allegiances change daily- whomever will hate alongside you is your best friend that day- been that way since ya showed up merrilou
notice your whos viewed me list gettin crowded?
its because when people write me and ask i say i dont care to gossip and if the person wants to learn about you they should go to your profile and click on 'my forums' on the left
we can all come to our own conclusions - why the need to insist you are right or certain types are certain ways?
CS is big enough for all and in fact i wish forum membership would grow times 10 personally
but it cant when people argue over stuff which has no right and wrong
this ilk thinks its justified and sees no conflict in attacking someone they perceive as an attacker
poor Gandhi is rollin in his grave
i didnt even mention it and participated in a civil manner -which was a heartfelt effort on my part
yet i still am the focus of blame
seriously who gives a hoot
this member has an axe to grind
first day here it was all my fault and it has never changed its tack
why should i care? those who draw quick conclusions and then cling to them, never bothering to look any deeper are those of the hair trigger type and whats the cause of all problem in humanity.
i know who i am and im not being defined by strangers and those who feel too important to take time for a closer look
first of all to blame anything on me is ridiculous
second of all how can one be a resident AND a troll?
thirdly i get really sick of you spending so much effort to besmirch my character-yet i do love how telling it is and that others see it
ive rec'd letters from 4 different men and countless women asking just exactly why you behave this way- to which i have no answer
and fourth if i am a troll its interesting that ive been a member since the place opened and changed my name only once and by choice.
im neither poor poor nor misunderstood and i wouldnt expect you to understand the reference i made to the OP's past here, nor mine- but there are those that do and that will suffice
no one beat anyone up here folks
she willfully misrepresented herself as the author of a thought process- this exact argument has been had many times- in the world and online it is bad form to pass something off as your own
i mean christ ive seen people in this very thread get upset because another member adopted what they felt was "their catch phrase" so just cut the pious crap
no one is a meanie and no one is a victim
so effing dramatic good gawd!! you all are the ones that redredged the thread to argue about it
acting as tho you are all so tolerant and accepting- yes thats easty to see as you bash others for what you call bashing
we all have our opinions of right and wrong why try to make people out as so awful because you dont agree with theirs?
well you are expecting accountability when people dont consider omission a lie... and those who do are called self righteous
i still stand by every word of my post relationships have lots of parts where the rubber meets the road and we must decide at every turn we are staying.
i says after these are my thoughts and then it says thanks for taking the time to read it at the end
im not sure what happened here
i tried to overlook it as i am familiar with the material...
however all day people post here and note the source
this is a person who has a career and is quite computer savvy so i dont feel anyone was beating her up or expecting some level of participation that she would have been innocently ignorant of.
i am sad it turned out the way it did- as far as her not owning her choice and also a bit disappointed at the hypocrisy in her statement at which point apparently she stormed out since i have seen her and been the victim of her blatent unkindness personally
so to come in and do this and then play victim and take her toys and leave the sandbox cuz we're big meanies makes me sad
im concerned that she is hurting and now thats not gonna be helped. here, anyway
RE: Your True Self!
do you copy and paste this answer as i see you use it quite alot