not sure exactly what you are referencing in the past there
i will fight to keep a friend who is leaving under a veil of misunderstanding and deceptions fed them by another but thats not jealousy thats striving for clarity
thats not wanting to lose a friend especially over untruths and gossip
if you are thinking i fought with anyone for my husband thats not true in the least
we were all 3 friends- they met as planned- no spark. nada. i know this to be true because she told me 'nothing happened' and so did he, separately, at the time. after 4 months of not exchanging so much as a word with 'her', he asked if we could broaden our friendship-
later we ended up married-
i wouldnt feel jealous even if they 'did it'
i mean that would be none of my business, and in the end she made such a spectacle of herself i neednt worry about him going back for more if he had ever had it at all.
frightful
so yeah. no. what youve seen here is not jealousy but alarm and sadness at people storming out under a despicable misconception planted by someone for who knows what reason
wimmens is crazy but sure i fought for it-i valued that friendship very much
i will just say im not necessarily ashamed of my feelings but i do strive to be well-less bogged down by such things, for my own sake and there are character defects that i like to keep an eye on in myself but i dont have a standard of perfection that i beat myself up with anymore so im ok
i think introspection and awareness about me is good for me to keep growing but really man woman jealousy
i dunno ive felt hurt if i wasnt chosen but...i dunno-isnt being jealous having a twinge of fear that you will be left for someone else? i dont have that
mindfful Forum Posts (18,996)
RE: Jealousy
good answer either way