No you are right. We should try. I was just trying to say that it is easier for some people than others. I am trying to communicate more but sometimes I have a hard time and clam up. Then I get accused of keeping secrets, when I really just don't want to talk about certain topics or isssues.
true but I am not talking about problems with other relationships. I always leave them in the past. I am talking about more ingrained senses. things that have been with you since maybe childhood that are hard to get rid of.
that is as it should be but not everything is black and white. Yes I will be the first to admit I have problems discussing what is bothering me. But that goes a long way back. As a child I could never voice my opinion so it has carried over into adult hood. It is easier for me to listen to someone than it is for me to lean on someone.
Damn it's like you were reading my mind. Something happened 9 yrs ago that I will never get over. Yes have been through counseling but it's still there and right now am at one of those low times. So thank you.
Not sure, but I think yes you do change after awhile, but for the better. The lust is gone but now you have that rare pure love. but then what do I know about love.
RE: what have u ate today?
two hard boiled eggs and a cup of tea