Ok you win. It isn't as simple as I thought. I can understand what you are saying. Just too tired to think right now. Been working my butt off this week.
I am a Grace Kelly. Everything is true except the calling mother part. Haven't spoken to her in like 10 years. Do have an aunt I talk to everyday though.
No not difficult if you have a sense of compassion and generally care about people. You seem to be that type of person also. I enjoy your posts and threads.
In this case I would not tell the boyfriend, but would try to get your friend away from him. If you know the truth then other people must also and who knows if they will tell him. My first priority would be in helping getting my friend away from this man.
Agree with Class. If a friend is in danger I would definatley warn her. If she doesn't take your advice than that is her choice. But think how you would feel if you didn't warn her and something happened to her.
Do they have nice bars/lounges or coffee bars near you? You can go with a buddy or by yourself and just try to strike up a conversation with someone. Don't go expecting to find that special someone, just go and make some new friends.
There is a difference between being alone and being lonely. Being alone can be nice at times but being lonely just sucks. When I feel like that I do things that make myself feel better. Or read a good book. Or go out even if I have to go out alone. You can always find someone to talk to.
RE: Are you open minded?
Ok you win. It isn't as simple as I thought. I can understand what you are saying. Just too tired to think right now. Been working my butt off this week.