OK this may sound cliche but I really think you need to love yourself before you can love or let someone else love you. It is not a good idea to start a relationship with someone when you are in crisis or have some emotional things going on. You are better off waiting to get yourself stable then go start a relationship with someone who is compatable to your own life style.
Yes can understand what you are saying. But I think what Spartan was trying to say is that it is not a person's fault if another falls in love with said person and that person doesn't feel the same way back. Then the other person should not make said person feel guilty because they do not love them back. Understand what I am trying to say?
How can falling in love be premeditated? Either it happens or it doesn't. Love to me takes time. It doesn't happen over night. You have to get to know that person in good times and bad.
Don't think I will ever get married again. If I am at a point where I am totally in love with a guy and want to be with him all the time, I would rather live together then get married. Cheaper to leave too. lol
Totally agree with you here. You can't help who you do or don't fall in love with. Same as you can't help who falls or doesn't fall in love with you. It's also not your fault if someone falls for you and you don't feel the same way. I have had guys in the past say I "made" them fall in love with me. what crap!! You can't make anyone fall in love with you.
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RE: If you could meet just one person from this site right now, who would it be and why?
There are a few people I would love to meet. Can't pick just one.