Dang, that's when I got started on him! I was laid up in a hospital bed completely non weight bearing for 2 months after an accident, my mom brought me all kinds of books, and LL was among them, I loved them! And some really good movies made from them, Conagher is one of my faves, and of course The Sacketts.
I just found one less than 20 miles away. Works lots better than 600!
I think the post before last is onto something. You let your guard down, cause it seems safe when they're so far away. Problem is when they don't ever get any closer. It can help build the self-confidence though.
Accept or walk away. People, men especially, don't change, unless it's for the worse. And the way I see it, what right do I have to decide how someone else should live their life. I have enough work to do on myself, can't be wasting time trying to change someone who doesn't want to.
(Took me almost 50 yrs to figure that out. I'm a little slow! )
I pick easy to remember for stuff like this where security isn't a big concern, usually just numbers, they're easier to type in. I've used everything from my daughter's name, birrthday, grandbaby's now, some combination of names or initials and birthdate.
I learned the hard way not to use a bf name for a security question, those thing's never go away! Almost as bad as a tat!
The why is simple, they're insecure about something about themselves, and don't want you to know at first, cause they think you won't be interested if you know. And that it won't matter once you find out. Might work for some, not for me.
RE: CAUTION!
Whatever you say dear.