A little story here: When bnd and I first met online....I had posted a thread....he commented on it and naturally, I went to his profile to "check him out"..........he had a really duffus looking pic up.... but I read his profile, which stated that he is a musician/singer/writer. Cool.....so i sent him a message....all the while, he has checked my profile out and I had a really duffus looking pic up too.....but he noticed as well, that I am a musician/writer/singer......I sent him a message......he asked if I had any music online to listen to, which I did, so I sent him the link. Now.........remember....we both have no physical attraction to each other.....our pics were really bad.......After he listened to my songs, he wrote me.........His words, exactly were....."you're f@cking awesome"...............and the rest is history.
It was his writing, his talent, his enthusiasm and appreciation for my work that hooked me.....and the same for him.........but I had to put myself out there....move out of my comfort zone and let others see me for who I am and not be afraid to show it.
Keep writing girl.......keep posting it..........it's great stuff..........
Wow....I just had an ephinany......I wrote this on a positive note, not seeing how some could see it as sad.......how those memories tend to open scars......
I'm bumping this, because these are words that more people should read.......these words are art......take the time to read and feel the passion.......
Yes mam, those are good memories....funny thing is, I have no problem remembering way back when, it's the short term memory that gets me now........like, walking into one room for something and forgetting what I walk in there for..............
This is small town, Kentucky, USA....everybody seems to own a gun of one sort or another....mostly for hunting, but the neighboring town, which has grown considerably, has had growth in crime as well......gang related, drug related, etc.
I, myself, while in that town, had my car broken into and my stero ripped from the dash....
There used to be a time, when I would not think twice about leaving my door unlocked at night, but now, times have changed....people get desperate and do desperate things. I don't own a gun, nor do I want to own a gun. But that's JUST MY OPINION.............
<---------------------------old enough to remember penny candy, three channels on the tv, baseball cards in the spokes of your bike, the days long before video games, playing outside, and so much more.........
I remember nights before bnd moved here we would stay up till 2 or 3 am.........and have to get up for work by 6. There was one night, it was on the Tuesday after we met....(met on Sunday) we were online, on messenger....I sent a message, he sent a message, I sent one back.....no answer......I waited.....no answer.........I got waited for 30 minutes and then got worried....so I called his house. He had fallen asleep at the computer................
I can write volumes about spiritual concepts......I'm not downing anybody for that, but it seems the op of this thread states that he is "in love" with three different women. Explain to me the "spiritual concept" of that......he is cheating these women of the respect they deserve.....as well as his undivided attention.......
OP....I'm still around......waiting for explanation.............
The fact of the matter is, ANYBODY who does this to someone is disrespectful and isn't worth giving a second chance to.......PERIOD. If they don't respect you enough to pick up a damned phone, then they don't deserve your attention.
Ok mr. "lover of three women" I have to go to school, but I've bookmarked this thread.......and expect to have my comment addressed..............DAMNITALLTOHELL!!!!!!!
I have found myself, on almost every comment I make, ending it with "JMO" (just my opinion)? Even on threads that the op asks for "opinions" and knows each comment is a personal opinion....I still feel the need to place a big "JMO" at the end.
I really can't answer this, as we both fell equally fast and hard for each other.....However......had it been one sided....say, he fell for me and I didn't for him right off the bat, it might have pushed me away some.
We all long to hear those words.....but within that same longing, we want to feel them and share them as well.......so for one to say "I love you" before the other is ready to comply or return the verse, tends to make the other uncomfortable. There is nothing more awkward than hearing/saying "I love you"........and then.....dead silence.............
RE: Youve got Friend Requests.....
Now you do..........