Knowledge and undertanding each other can only be accomplished if each person is willing to seek the answers.....This is not only true with male/female miscommunication, but in life, in general.
Although, there are some mysteries that shall never be solved.....
I didn't say it was about ME personally.....however, I am in a relationship and we do spend time here...so, it was, in fact, directed to those in our situation.
This was your post......you asked how we would be spending our time.......I simply answered your question......this is how we are spending our free time together...........
JMO.....Many times, people with low self esteem will do one of three things:
1. They will exclude themselves completely and just look in from the outside.
2. They will include themselves in a overly friendly way, to try to fit in.
3. They will include themselves in ways such as lashing out at others in a way to make them feel better about themselves.
Generally speaking, co-dependant personalities are those with low self esteem.
Conceit and arrogance can be displayed by both low and high self esteem individuals. Someone who just feels good about themselves, will generally pass that feeling on to others around them or whom they are speaking to. Arrogance and conceit will be displayed when the person comes off as he/she has the only opinion that counts....they will "talk down to" people and try to make them feel inferior. They will come off as rude in place of sarcastic.
Before I went out on a date, I used to go to the mall and use the "tester" bottle of perfume...you know, the real expensive kind.....I'd spray it on a piece of paper or something and then just before the date I would rub it all over me........Cheap, I know....but....it was free, so why not.
Honestly, I stopped looking after I met BND online the first night...something just told me I had found "the one". I made a verbal commitment then....if only to myself. 4 days later when we met, we made that commitment to each other....and now....well.......committed for life.
You are always welcome on any thread I post....I would not, will not slam you for any comment that is thought provoking, humorous and insightful. Not that I feel that I have to give you permision, as I do not, I just want you to know that.
RE: Has any movie or book...
I need to read this one again.......as I recall, it was a great read.........Thanks for reminding me of it....