I understand that you're answering the OP's question, but what would the woman be bringing to this table? Or would she be coming empty handed? It has to be a two way street.
In regard to the OP's poll- Is it a little bit pointless? A person either has or has not the qualities naturally. Just because a woman likes eg. honesty, isn't going to make a dishonest person honest.
RE: philliopine woman