I dont have a problem with it, you do what you have to, to get by...ppl will always find something to judge others on...so doesnt really matter...to hell with them...
It does get easier everyday, you just may not see it....they tend to run together in sorts. but there be a time when a things dont seem so blurry and painful, a memory or thought of her wont be so raw..you will feel lightened in a sense. but until then...stay busy, hang out with friends, workout, go to the movies...but stay away from things that remind you of her if possible..i know its not easy, but nothing worthwhile is and there will be others who will take the empty place..my best to you...
whoa....LOL...what a thought, and u said it out loud..go girl!!!
no the pain doesnt magically go away, would be nice but..i guess thats what we get for having feelings and emotions, huh....I think tho, its much easier to move on and let the burning heart begin to heal...if one wants to move past that..some of my friends get so hung up on it, its like they want to stay in that miserable state of mind...again which road of life to choose...
hey skep...dont sell yourself short, as long as your still alive you have the option to make yourself better. Being insecure, isnt a terminal illness, nor is depression or anxiety...they may be struggles and some times are harder then others..but you dont get to stop fighting, cuz life gets hard. skep, theres many things that you can do, read, or learn to be a better person and find self-confidence in yourself....you have to like and accept yourself for who you are...give yourself a lil credit...
thanks krazie....very true, maybe they really werent mistakes...thats a good spin on things...i have some that could go either way, but the ones i know theres some i have to take the blame for...grrr
finger pointing was something was a problem for me as well...and looking back to the arguments, geez how lame they were...now i would laugh it off, as i should of then...pick my battles more wisely..
no regrets are good..as i dont regret them, cuz ive learned from them, i cant regret what taught me much..
blue_eyed_blonde Forum Posts (5,458)
teasing, i dont know what i would do..i'll think and get bck to ya..
hiya, welcome and best of luck
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