when i meet my husband i had no idea he was violent, everyone else saw a kind considerate man, and i had no experience of domestic violence. I was not insecure at that time and had a career where i was confident and assertive, the help i need was practical . You have to have experienced this to fully understand
I was in an abusive relationship both physically and mentally for 16yrs i stayed because i had 2 children and nowhere to go i was ashamed to tell my family, and eventually left when the violence was turned to my daughter then 16 yrs. It is easy for people to say go but if you have no where to go and you are threatened that if you do they will kill you, it is not easy
Even once you have gone it stay's with you and effects other relationships you try and have, the physically injuries heal the emotionally ones never do
well long as you enjoyed it, last time idid that was my B'day and i decided i could pole dance ! one bar i won't be goin back to! the weather is beautiful now sun every day so will go for a walk on the beach,it is so lovely here i am lucky.
morganlee Forum Posts (4,368)
i don't remember my children being this bad 
have to agree with you on that how are you 
RE: I need advise
that's good advice