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RE: God...fact or fiction?

I understand were you're coming from Fellfrosch, but all you're saying is that you choose to put faith in science as opposed to God!

The science of evolution isn't concrete...scientists themselves acknowledge this. So in effect you are choosing to believe in a theory.

All I'm saying is that there are some pretty fundamental questions that need answering before I can righty accept evolution as a likely answer to the whole conundrum.

For instance, can order spring from chaos? Mathematicians often comment on the level of order present in the universe...everything is just were it should be. All that from a starting point of chaos?

Also, mathematicians have worked out the odds of all the neccessary building blocks for the start of life to be present in one place...at just the right time...in the perfect environment, as...wait for it...impossoble! Yup, the figure far exceeds the generally held point where the liklihood becomes not just unlikely, but impossible.

So I'll wait and keep an open mind methinks.beer

RE: God...fact or fiction?

rolling on the floor laughing

Sad old git!beer

RE: Cologne & Perfume...

Eau de Bidet is a favourite of mine.laugh

RE: God...fact or fiction?

Fellfrosch, you make some good points, but I have to say that evolution is still just a collection of hypothesis'...it's still just a theory.

It has been commented by scientists themselves that it takes jst as much faith to believe in evolution as it does to beleive in God because of this!

I love science, but it does have it's limits, and all scientifically minded people should be honest enough to admit this.beer

The Chemistry/Compatability Ballance.

True enough...compatablility should be the basis for a relationship, with chemistry complementing the bond of compatability.

And yes Constanza, compatability within chemistry is vital also!beer

The Chemistry/Compatability Ballance.

So, we know it's a blend of both, but to what degree? Here's one lady's view;

"Your post really hit a nerve with me.

I am now with a lovely man that I met on here actually. He is kind, caring, genuine and very gorgeous too! However..... A couple of years back I met someone that I had incredible chemistry with. I really thought it would go somewhere, but due to his unreliability I decided to back away from him as I knew from experience it would end in tears and i wouldnt be able to convince him to be more reliable.

Anyway, despite how strong and serious my feelings are for the new guy, the ex is always on my shoulder. I made the sensible choice, but I dont seem to be able to get the ex out of my head and heart. If I gave into him I know i would not have a good life. I can have a great life with the new guy. Sometimes we just have to choose whats best for us....... u will always have feelings for your first love. The next one wont necessarily be the same, but that doesnt mean you wont eventually fall in love with him. Sometimes its not instantaneous.... Might be worth the wait tho."

I can't fault her reasoning one bit. Having said that, I'd still o for a relationship full of chemistry over one built on chemistry every time...I'd just love the excitement...within reason.

But is focussing on compatability over chemistry the correct way forward to acheive true and lasting happiness?

Of course we all differ in terms of our personalities...so what do you think?beer

RE: Does the fear of rejection hold you back?

Fear of rejection is a terrible burden...never quite mastered it myself.

Having said that, when I met a girl who really did it for me, I just went for it...threw all my fears to one side.

beer

RE: do you ever feel tired and knackered alot.

Go see your GP and get a check up mate...could be a problem you're not aware of.beer

RE: God...fact or fiction?

I'm sorry sir, just what did I do to you to elicit such an unwarranted rebuke?confused

May I suggest that you refrain from such uncivil comments as many will view them, and it could have a bearing on how certain ladies view you.

Good luck, and have a splendid evening!beer

RE: God...fact or fiction?

Leaving Gods existence to one side, it's worth considering that evolution is still just a theory, and the evidence to support the range of theories suggested is painfully minimal.

I'm not about to believe in a theory...it needs proof...facts...evidence. So on the same basis that many dismis Gods existence, I guess we should be dismissing evolution as a viable alternative until they find something more conclussive for us to digest?

Just a couple of thoughts to get us thinking about this.beer

RE: A dying relationship

When misery is your master...when your complete health is under threat...when you've tried every available option to remedy the problems present.

Then...move on.beer

RE: Whats The Worst Foreign Body

I've found half a maggot in an apple I was happily munching on.roll eyes

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