It'a answered by considering the following anecdote:
The Venetian ambassador travelled to England and entered the Court of the King at the time. His splendid sartorial ellegance and grace were noted by all, with one nobleman heard commenting to another, "You know, he'd make a wonderful Englishman if he weren't foreign"
Marina, I don't disapprove of the process as a whole, just the indiscriminate sending of flowers and e-mails to any and every woman...WITHOUT DISCERNMENT.
Sure I 'pounce' myself, but selectively so.
I pose the question as a result of several comments from ladies 'complaining' of inbox's too full of mail and flowers.
Don't change yourself...don't think you're not good enough as you are - you seem very able and worthy.
Just relax, any signs of desperation will appear like a warning light to some men, while it could attract the predatorial type if you're really unfortunate.
We project what we feel about ourselves...if we feel good about ourselves, that will be obvious to those we meet and is more attractive to men.
So, relax, be prepared to be patient, and don't take just anything...be choosey!
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Saladin The Great...he was a dude!