Why Do Men... ( Archived) (30)

Nov 23, 2007 11:35 AM CST Why Do Men...
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
...pounce on women, deluging them with flowers and e-mails? Why not hold back and be more discerning...even waiting for women to contact the man?

Surely, after the initial flush of feeling flattered, it's irritating for the woman, so why do men persist?
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Nov 23, 2007 11:36 AM CST Why Do Men...
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
because it's in our nature. don't ask why, just get with a program. peace
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Nov 23, 2007 11:37 AM CST Why Do Men...
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
This "behaviour" is as old as time...lol

It is in the nature of men to "hunt"...and "deluging" them with gifts (as you put it) is all part and package of the modern day hunt!wine
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Nov 23, 2007 11:38 AM CST Why Do Men...
hrt4lse
hrt4lsehrt4lseRedding, California USA13 Threads 1,233 Posts
What gets irritating is when the guy comes on hot & heavy and then backs away to nothing. THAT's what's irritating...lol
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Nov 23, 2007 11:40 AM CST Why Do Men...
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
thumbs up


I personally prefer such men!!!!


cheering
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Nov 23, 2007 11:40 AM CST Why Do Men...
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Then you will wait forever grin
Good luck with it cheers
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Nov 23, 2007 11:44 AM CST Why Do Men...
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
How else are we to know that a man actually likes us and not only giving a friendly compliment?

I like it when a guy 'constantly' reminds me he's thinking of me and i don't like guys who need to be 'constantly' pushed.

cool
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Nov 23, 2007 11:44 AM CST Why Do Men...
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
Marina, I don't disapprove of the process as a whole, just the indiscriminate sending of flowers and e-mails to any and every woman...WITHOUT DISCERNMENT.

Sure I 'pounce' myself, but selectively so.grin

I pose the question as a result of several comments from ladies 'complaining' of inbox's too full of mail and flowers.

wine
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Nov 23, 2007 11:50 AM CST Why Do Men...
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
That makes sense...personal preference and all.wine
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Nov 23, 2007 11:52 AM CST Why Do Men...
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Some menscold




grin
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Nov 23, 2007 11:54 AM CST Why Do Men...
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Okay i got it ... Good point.

but would you believe me if I will tell you ... Me,personaly have never send neither a flower nor an e-mail to male species. And no, i do not "complain" laugh

Men hunt ... women cook grin
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Nov 23, 2007 11:57 AM CST Why Do Men...
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
you must be jelouse or something!

doh tongue
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Nov 23, 2007 11:57 AM CST Why Do Men...
Softly_Me
Softly_MeSoftly_MeColumbus, Ohio USA10 Threads 388 Posts
I think what women complain about is not the flowers or even the emails - its emails that say virtually nothing (wanna chat?) or guys that have not read your profile, they have no photo and their profile says very little (ask me anything). scold

When you have a lot to go through - the interesting emails get the first response.

Make sense?

conversing
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Nov 23, 2007 11:59 AM CST Why Do Men...
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
da ladno slishish!

Ne slala ya! Ne slala! grin
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Nov 23, 2007 12:01 PM CST Why Do Men...
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
I ment PERVAYA devil laugh
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Nov 23, 2007 12:05 PM CST Why Do Men...
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
ugah ... vse po polochckam ... acuratninco grin
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Nov 23, 2007 12:11 PM CST Why Do Men...
belkys37
belkys37belkys37TEANECK, New Jersey USA19 Posts
not irritating to me, persistence is good......with a little class in each email or flower......wave
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Nov 23, 2007 12:14 PM CST Why Do Men...
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
yup ... you know i like it when everything goes as ordered

grin


Gotta gotta go Farewell wave
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Nov 23, 2007 12:17 PM CST Why Do Men...
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
c ya sigh
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Nov 23, 2007 12:17 PM CST Why Do Men...
ericthall
ericthallericthallAsheville, USA7 Threads 1,284 Posts
i really like the new primary picture... you hottiegrin

and now i see you have moved to another spot ,with intrigue surounding it...wink
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