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RE: Internet dating

Discernment sounds good...sharpenning those skills is a pre-requisite to not getting burnt...too often!

But no...I totally see where you're coming from...it makes sense.

Good luck!

RE: Internet dating

People have MUCH more scope to construct a smooth web of deceit from the comfort of their own home though, don't you think?

Of course it's different for women...you have to consider the safety aspects much more so.

But if it were me, and I've stated this before, I'd be looking to meet as SOON as possible.

My thinking?

Communication is so much more than words...it's 70% non verbal!

I want to see their face...hear their voice...observe how they respond to certain situations etc.

Different strokes and all that though. Do what you feel comfy with.

RE: how famous are you on the forums?

2...for now.

RE: would you ever become a freedom fighter ?

I've slept already Gilly man.

RE: Why do we want to hate...

Great post.

It's just projection...transfering the anger we feel within ourselves about ourselves...flaws and failings etc.

I almost hated the girl I loved and lost...and felt dirty after all had settled...dirty and pathetic.

Never again...learned a valuable lesson there...another one!

RE: would you ever become a freedom fighter ?

In my own special way...yes I would Gilly.

RE: Why are you here??

I'm here because I just got woke up by the strangest dream...but at least I got a couple of hours in.

Oh, and if there's any Minnie Drivers willing to rescue me, I'd be much obliged.

No pressure!

RE: Apology for losing my cool

Don't answer 'em...i don't anymore...let them talk to themselves.

Those sorta threads act like emotional vampires...suck yer positive energy from you.

RE: Snack Time: Junk Food or Fruits and Veggies?

But I'm not a rabbit!

RE: Snack Time: Junk Food or Fruits and Veggies?

Something of desperation in my fruit eating.

RE: I just want to say hallo ...

RE: just saying HI..

RE: Is Ray always right?

RE: Are man’s prefer beauty or intellect?

I like them bestest.

RE: What's the most charitable thing

RE: Is Ray always right?

Resonance is life!

RE: Is Ray always right?

Help me?

No need...I intend to oscillate happily between everybody.

RE: Is Ray always right?

Mummy...MUMMY...a strange man is giving me candy and wants to take me to his bemusement park where there's rainbows and warm fuzzies.

RE: What's the most charitable thing

RE: Arabic Gardening

And very clever also!

RE: What's the most charitable thing

Thank you for your restraint Riya.

RE: What is Life?

RE: What's the most charitable thing

Exactly!

RE: What's the most charitable thing

Nuffin'.

Anyway, it's nobodies business.




Oh ok, I smiled at an old lady.

RE: OK....

Sorry...afraid of bush whackers.

RE: Is Ray always right?

I prefer the slightly caustic, obnoxious Ray we've come to know and erm...accept.

If he's aggreeable too much, it just don't feel right...my skin feels all funny and my eyes twitch madly.

No, Ray must be Ray!

RE: What is Life?

I have no idea...

RE: There is enough religion for us to hate, but not enough for us to love

People do like to complicate these things.

Jesus, wether you believe in him or not, put it simply enough when pointing out to his disciples that the whole point of the laws in the bible was...love.

It should all lead to love.

RE: What is Life?

Oh if only I wanted it to be that simple Riya!

RE: What is Life?

Ambiguities are my forte, my cryptic ally in shbloobage appreciation.