Christianity is not a growing faith...it's adherents are diminishing.
By far the most aggressive religion is Islam.
Fact!
Just be objective...s'all.
Definition: Bigotry - The attitude, state of mind, or behavior characteristic of a bigot; intolerance...unwillingness to recognize and respect differences in opinions or beliefs.
So what is condemned is being perpetrated on this thread!
Analogy: I weigh up her lips admiringly...the fulness and lushness...decide in my mind how I'm goin' to approach my first contact with them, be it my own lips or perhaps my tongue...and then I stop thinking and just go for it!
It's kinda refreshing to read through the posts. Respect HAS to take precedence over chemistry; ie form the basis for allowing any subsequent chemistry to blossom.
It would seem to me this approach would help many relationships enjoy a healthy stability.
"...Sometimes a man that wants to control you starts out by taking care of all the little problems we have in life, dealing with a return, handling an insurance claim, etc. This is a huge warning sign to me as this "need to take care of things" actually shows that you are weak and unable to deal with these things in his mind. This turns to disrespect and an attempt to control everything in your life."
So true!!!! I've seen this, and indeed experienced it myself. Very good point JB.
Do we feel we deserve, or are entitled to respect within a relationship setting.
OR, should we go about inspiring respect...earning it so to speak?
I mean yes, we all deserve a modicum or respect as fellow hoomans...this is a fundamental.
But in any relationship, surely we have to go about conducting ourselves in such a way so as to be worthy of such respect...inspiring admiration and value if you like?
RE: GOD V RELIGION
Simpleton.Bigotry can't be reasoned with.
It's like throwing pearls before swine.