BUT!!! Try to learn from these failed attempts...learn for you so you're better equipped when Mr Right pops along. No point in feeling negative about it all...trurn as much as you can into a personal positive.
I've screwed up plenty of times...yup, despite what went wrong with my past relationships, I choose to think about what I did wrong, where I could improve. That way, I can improve and look back with lessening sadness.
RE: Say something to someone-no need for names